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Hi Gardener. Sounds like you're doin' OK. I hope it continues. It's been a rough go.


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And eventually, when you are making out with a new nice lady in the parking lot of the grocery store near your home, you wont even be thinking of your X!

oh, there's gotta be a story here....


I think there is always a story with Kerry! Just makes life more interesting you know? smile

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I posted that last night shortly after coming home from date night. My head was in the clouds a bit. My date did mention that other customers may yell out "get a room!".

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Yes. Thursday I was at a singles thing with a group from church and had an attractive 35-year-old college guidance counselor on my left and a 31-year-old attractive banking employee on my right.

I went back and forth in the conversation, trying to give both equal treatment, and I didn't think about STBXW at all.

Moving forward is always better than looking backward. It just varies in how long it takes to get the ship going.


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Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
Thursday I was at a singles thing with a group from church and had an attractive 35-year-old college guidance counselor on my left and a 31-year-old attractive banking employee on my right.

I have an image in my mind of you playing the role of Mills Lane as referee in a cat fight over you.

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Kerry,
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And eventually, when you are making out with a new nice lady in the parking lot of the grocery store near your home, you wont even be thinking of your X!
Very well - and enticingly - put! grin


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Hi Gardener. Sounds like you're doin' OK. I hope it continues. It's been a rough go.
Thanks, ant. I am.
"rough go"...great understatement!


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Originally Posted By: KerryK
IMy date did mention that other customers may yell out "get a room!".
Yes!


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This evening I was finishing up some gardening out front when X (and surgically attached dog) stopped by to sign renter's agreement which she couldn't wait around for Tuesday.

I reminded her that I'd said I'd confirm tonight with her - which I didn't - renter's not home tonight. He and I will sign and I'll mail it to her, I decided. "Okay."

She asked if she could go out back and cut flowers. "Go right ahead."
I finished up, went in house through the front, took a shower, didn't see her again. Was going to use the word "ignore" in this post, but "ignore" denotes intent, a decision. For me, now, whenever I see her it's simply a sense of, "Yeah...so?"

Later, while driving, I thought that one week ago today was the one year "anniversary" of when she asked for D. The fact that that date and event didn't register for over a week, must say something about where I'm at now.

Off tomorrow morning for a "guys" weekend that I organized with eight of my ol' high school crowd. A couple I still see often. The other six? It's been between 5 and 25 years!

See ya Sunday.

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I wonder...will you ol' high school guys be singing the Beach Boys "Be True To Your School" this weekend?

Have Fun!

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