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Gnosis always tells LBWs to start doing 3 things that make them happy every day, and to use their threads for accountability. He doesn't just advise women to do this for their own well-being, though I know that's part of it. He knows what we all do...happiness is very attractive.

So sisters, I'm laying down the challenge. Join the 3 things cult smile


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Originally Posted By: gman
the "bitchy" attitude or nagging attitude are definate turn-offs.

chemistry....or the "spark" needs to be constantly nourished by both parties as well - so i add to my list

a woman who can devote herself to me.


Poor spelling is a definite turn-off for some women....

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Kimmie - Now THAT is bitchy, but damn funny! LoL

Gman - HUGS LOL


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LOL

omg. you rock.

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Now I know why my wife wants out...I R NOT GUD SPELLLER.


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Thank you so much guys. You gave way more than I thought... I really wanted to see if there was a pattern. Like from my perspective, some women like blue eyes, some like strong arms, but it's pretty universal that when asked, they'll all say a good sense of humor and confidence.

Keep it coming. smile


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Originally Posted By: Kimmie Lee


I think it was Candice Bergen who said that men say they want a confident, independent woman, but then they tear her down, brick by brick.


I think you could easily say the same thing in reverse, Kimmie Lee. Women SAY they want a strong, confident man, and then they proceed to nag him and emasculate him, and tell him how he's doing everything wrong.

At least SOME do.

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A good book to look at would be For Women Only:
What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men
by Shaunti Feldhahn.

I found the counterpart book, For Men Only, to be very informative.

For me, I find confidence, a sense of humor, and intelligence to be very attractive traits.


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Originally Posted By: Kimmie Lee

Poor spelling is a definite turn-off for some women....


roflmao - touche

but isn't that why microsoft invented spell checkers...lol


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