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I admit. The loneliness is setting in now. Only a week left of this and then I start my job.

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So have you contacted the L yet or have you gone back to sitting on the fence?


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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Originally Posted By: K4D
I admit. The loneliness is setting in now. Only a week left of this and then I start my job.


WOW. Perfect time for situps!

if you are sick of situps, have you tried lying leg raises or reverse crunches? both great for hip flexor strength.

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Been wondering how you are and where your mind is at these days. Hope its in a forward progression!!


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So Saturday I had told W I was taking dance lessons that night and she was welcomed to join since she wouldn't have the kids that night. She didn't show and I didn't expect her to.

Today we are IMing a bit because she and D8 were sick yesterday and just chatting about a few different things.

Then she says the following...

"i wanted to say thank you for the invite to the lesson for saturday night. meant a lot. i'd like us to be friends. just takes some time."

I said back, "np. agreed"

I realize this doesn't say M or business only. I wasn't quite sure how to respond so that is how I responded.

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Boom!

I really like the invite, and the IM. Friendship is always where it starts, in any relationship or marriage. She's testing the waters a bit, and it sounds like you handled it very well. You sound good man.

After catching up on this thread, I'm going to do some situps! While unemployed I was working out all the time and down to 206. Now I have plenty of money but I'm back to 224. Hard to be both! W's family is all extremely overweight but also rich. LOL.


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Originally Posted By: jon2911
After catching up on this thread, I'm going to do some situps!


excellent. excellent. this is the situp thread.

remember, there was a time when tyson could only do 20? it doesnt matter where you start at as long as you continue to have constant improvement.

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I am ordering a pizza tonight. How many situps does that require? There will be pepperoni on the pizza. But it is a thin and crispy pizza. lol.

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Been wondering how you are and where your mind is at these days. Hope its in a forward progression!!


I had a good weekend. Went dancing a couple of times. I am having a bit of trouble focusing this week and I am ready to just get back to work. But all in all, I am doing ok.

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Glad you are doing well. I bet work will really help your mind move forward as you will be so busy.

Dancing huh? smile


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