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I like it, in a way, but I vote "no".

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Thank you all.

On my way home from my new GAL gym, I realized there could be any number of incorrect conclusions and intentions she could - and would -draw from my wearing any flower and it would be completely out of my control.

So, I decided to wear my dignity tomorrow.

Thanks for taking the time and for the food for thought.


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With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac


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(((Gardener)))

I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.


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Sanity and logic prevail! Good choice Gman.

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Dignity is always in style. You will be the most classy guy in the joint!


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Good choice G man!


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Just now (10:55 p.m.) received the FINAL version of the divorce agreement.

Yeah, that gives me - and my lawyer - plenty of time to review it and make any necessary changes/corrections before 9:00 tomorrow morning!

Mediators suck.
Mine does, anyway.

Tomorrow's gonna suck.

Goodnight.

Will report back in sometime tomorrow.


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I have yet to hear back about my own actual divorce as well. We signed an agreement on 1/14 for custody, house, and financial split but that did not dissolve the marriage. I asked my lawyer at that time how long will it be until it was legal and she said about 3 to 4 weeks. ?? Still no word and we are coming up on 4 weeks. Be glad that you have some closure Gardener.


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Hey thanks for checking in on me!

In addition, thanks for the forward about you and your son. I feel confident that if I constantly strive to be my best as a man and a father my two little men will emerge from this as loving, compassionate, fullfilled, gentlemen.

Queastion - You suggested I see Gypsy, please elaborate on my thread.

Keep you head up tomorrow and stand tall.


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Oregon is rooting for a successful outcome for you, for your STBX-W, and for all your herbs. Dignity. Closure.
When that's done, I need you to send the friggin' United States Army to Portland. STAT.
Peace.
Goldey

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