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so i got a letter in the mail from the district attorney regarding the mistress. she is scheduled for a second court date in november! might go to trial!

i have to say, i want the whole thing to go away. i dont want to keep reliving it. i received another copy of an order of protection and this one didnt have my son's name on it.

i went crazy, called the DA and wouldnt let them off the phone until the issue was resolved. it turns out i filed 2 separate charges, there are 2 cases against her? no clue i did that...

so i have 2 orders in effect, i was so nervous that they reversed the one with my son but they didnt.

ugh, i was crying on the phone so upset! the DA asked me what i wanted to see happen to her. i have to be honest, at that point, all i cared about was keeping her away from my son and myself. so i simply said, i just want an order of protection to ensure she is to stay away from my son and me.

i could have said i want her in real trouble, i could have been meaner, but i wasnt.

i told my side of the story, questioning why she felt the need to harass me when she already had my husband living with her.

drama. i dont need it. i dont want to hear about her or from her. i want to move on!

but wow, between h and the divorce stuff that he needs to gather within a matter of days and her with the trial and retaining her own attorney, cant be too happy these days in paradise. or in disney world lol...


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
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Sounds like the fairytail is not so grand after all!!! I think that your H may be getting his just rewards pretty soon.

I would love to be fly on the wall in thier 'pumpkin' and listen to the arguements that have to be happening. I hope when all of this goes down and it finally comes to a legal end, that she sees that she is in over her head with your H and dumps his a$$.

I am happy to hear that you found out about the protection orders and got it squared away before you went to court and found out there. Good job on sticking to your guns about wanting her to stay away from you and your son. Some people, me included, have filed for a protective order and then wanting it to be done and over with, end up dropping it before it makes it to court. Great Job Girl.


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so get this - - - h comes to see son today and when he dropped him off, handed son an envelope to give me because i wouldnt come to the door....in the envelope is his attempt at voluntarily giving me money. are u all sitting down????

a money order for $30!!!! yes, i said thirty dollars...

is he kidding me?


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Hmmm. Maybe he was afraid you'd laugh in his face???

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does he think the judge is going to be pleased with his attempt at child support?


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Have you any idea on how you are going to invest it? You might want to put some in a treasury bond and another part in a mutual fund and then use the rest to pay bills.

When the judge hears of this feeble attempt, I dont know how they keep from laughing in court.

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Originally Posted By: mdoodles
does he think the judge is going to be pleased with his attempt at child support?


Well, it was either that or pay 2.5 days of his car payment, so . . .

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i really do wonder what the judge will think. did his lawyer tell him to only give me $30? i cant imagine. anything under $100 is an insult if u ask me.

i was actually upset this weekend about h. i can separate my feelings, its not that i want him back anymore, more just upset for what we once had, who he used to be. its sad.


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Originally Posted By: mdoodles
i really do wonder what the judge will think. did his lawyer tell him to only give me $30? i cant imagine. anything under $100 is an insult if u ask me.


A judge isn't going to care about you being insulted, Doodles. He or she is going to care about whether you and your son's financial needs are being met, what your husband's ability to pay is, and how that small $30 contribution compares to other things he may or may not be squandering marital assets on.

I think you said he's making a large car payment? Can he realistically sell that car and get something cheaper? What other expenses does he have, and what else is he spending his money on?

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he claims he sold the porsche, we want to know if he made money on it because technically its marital property. our insurance still showed the porsche as of mid sept so who knows if he really sold it.

he is driving the car he got her which is not expensive, $300 a month. his paperwork is due this week listing his expenses but someone paid for disney world!

and he sold the contents of the store and gave me nothing so that money is in question right now.

he is paying cell phones, internet, the car, the insurance and living expenses for himself. he bailed her out of jail and we want to know he is paying for her college tuition.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
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