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I hope for a run in for you too. Could be a good thing!!

After you get in to the new apartment, get your son off to school, what's your next goal? Job hunting, how's that going? You haven't mentioned that in awhile. Anything new there? Are you thinking of going through with the D or letting you H roll the ball in his court for a bit?

Just my curious side kicking in. LOL!!

Hope the move goes smooth and you get everthing back in order in your new place really quick!


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yeah, im guessing once i am in i will have to try and find some type of job. not thrilled about it. at all.

ive been a stay at home mom for 6 years and considering im only 31, work hasnt exactly been a big thing in my life!

as for the divorce, i told my lawyer to move forward today. interesting that h wants it and has done nothing..

we are filing the motions for support and restraining of our assets.

just showed son our new place, he liked it! he noticed it was smaller but still liked it!

didnt see my crush, although im hoping to one of these days...


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Glad to see you are doing good Mdoodles. Good luck with the move.


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yes, good luck with the move and I'm really sorry about the jewelry, that's a hard blow and just so low. I think you need to brace yourself for the "return" because it's probably coming.


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what return do u mean?

still busy moving things, im tired!

im restraining myself from contacting crush. it just came and went so quickly! it was only last wednesday that i had the most amazing date of my life. yes, my life!

so where did he disappear to? im so proud of myself for not passing his house, do u know what its like to now be moving to his development? its crazy.


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mdoodles,

I so understand. I told you I reached out to my crush like three times before I stopped (so many times b/c he did politely respond) but I figured no more. Ahhh, maybe a call won't hurt but dunno. My experience told me that if he wanted to contact me, he would have. But its so tempting isn't it. smile

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I hesitate to ask. But exactly what happened on the greatest date of your life to make it so great?

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it was just the best date....we clicked the minute i met him, went to an amazing restaurant on the water, great conversation, totally liked him, totally comfortable with him, he totally liked me...it was just great...very open and enjoyable and a gentleman...hung out after, he was so totally into me the same amount that i was into him....we texted for hours after.

wanted to see me all of the time he said, whenever iwanted, we wanted the same things, anything i said i was looking for, he said he wanted and needed to..

it was amazing...so where is he? and why am i having to restrain myself from contacting him?

vicky, what do we do?


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So have you given up on your stand for your M then?

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yes i have...never thought i would, but i have... its time.

its not to say that down the road, if h somehow really truly wanted things back, really truly worked at himself and tried to win me back, its not to say i wouldnt reconsider him.

but im moving forward with the separation/divorce. its time.

im moving on as if we are finished.

i waited for 3 years for him and at this point, with his behavior, its enough.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
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