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i went to put on a necklace last night only to see they are all missing!!!!!!!

when h swiped the paintings last week it is looking like he took my necklaces. i had checked right away to see if he took anything but since i saw my wedding band sitting there, i figured he didnt touch my jewelry.

crazy huh?????????

i guess its ugly now. i guess i take everything when i move and hold it for ransom. his golf clubs, fancy coats etc.

good thing im just about over him. it doesnt hurt too much i must admit.


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OMG, what an ass.

Do you think he hocked them to make a car payment? He seems pretty desperate. Holding HIS stuff for ransom isn't going to work if he already SOLD, YOUR stuff.

I would send him a text and let him know that you'll be out all afternoon, and if it's not back when you return, you're filing a police report.

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i was told i cant file a police report so that wont work. i sent him a text yesterday telling him i see he took my necklaces, i got no response.

the best i can do is inform my lawyer and add it into what he owes me.

when i move i intend now to take his things with me and if he wants them back he has to give me the jewelry for reimburse me for it.

one necklace was from my parents and was such a statement of a piece of jewelry, i really miss it. the other 2 were gifts from him that i loved but this other necklace was a conversation piece, a big puffed heart with blue saphires and diamonds.


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I'm so sorry. What do you think the total value of these were?

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a few thousand dollars. i also see im missing a tiny jewelry box that i believe contained a jewish star passed down in my family. im going to keep looking, although im neat and organized and cant imagine where else it could be.

its amazing how im rather indifferent towards him, the anger isnt even there, just disgust and indifference.


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Originally Posted By: mdoodles


its amazing how im rather indifferent towards him, the anger isnt even there, just disgust and indifference.


Hmm. Remember way back when, Doodles, when I predicted that your emotions were going to cycle thru all of these different extremes, but that you'd know you were done when you got to "disgust"??

A judge looking at your petition for support is NOT going to look kindly on such shenanigans.

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yeah, a judge will not see anything positive in his actions...i would never take his personal belongings, never.

i never considered selling his tools, his bbq, his clothes etc. only our household mutual items. to me, his tools were like my pocketbooks, too personal.

but he didnt care, he took my jewelry! i cant believe he didnt take my pocketbooks too! they are worth as much as the jewelry!

total sicko.

and yes, u did tell me how i would eventually feel. and im feeling it.

i dont even care much about psycho either. its amazing. i hope it sticks.


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Do you have these items and their value documented in your homeowners insurance or something like that? Im sure that even if you cant file a police report you can document it in court, I think that telling your lawyer was a good idea.

Im glad that you changed your alarm code! What a snake!

By the way, does your H know that you cant file a police report on it?


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You "can't" file a report? Since when? I'm pretty sure that insurance companies demand that before they will replace the items. Something is fishy here.

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I would file an INSURANCE claim, and let THEM handle it with H.

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