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she has lied in the past and said she was. it is my biggest fear, believe me....please pray for me that at the very least, that does not happen.


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You are in my prayers, I actually think about you a lot! I think that you are doing amazingly well, and I am impressed by all the great advice you are getting on here. I do wish you the best doodles.


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
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aww, thanks bluerain, i often think of u, i am fascinated that i "talk" to someone as far away as alaska!

i like to think im doing well, im holding it together.

i miss him, but im realizing that the "him" i miss, isnt him right now. may never be again.

when i see him, i still "see" him, but really, he is a stranger to me now.

i dont understand him, dont understand how he can be with someone so nuts, how he can choose her over our family, over our son.

but really, he never really chose her, he was always lying to her, cheating on her etc.

i guess that makes me feel alittle better, if that makes sense.

i will be ok. i know i will. i will turn out a heck alot better than him when this is all said and done.


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i cant sleep. psycho sent me a text message and tried to call 2 times in the middle of the night.

unbelievable already. why does he stay with her? i will never understand.

oh, i left something out. h is totally desparate for money. asked me where our silver is. i was like, oh, isnt it in the dining room? he said, no. its not, where did i put it.

(ok fine, u got me - i took the silver to my parents house weeks ago knowing it would be the first thing he went for! am i smart or what? lol)

anyway, i asked him what he wanted it for? he said, "i was going to take it and sell it". i said, oh really...

he said that i can have the china, i said, oh really...

he told me his grandmother bought half the silver so he can take it. i told him i dont think so. he was like, u can have the china, what are u going to do with it anyway.

i said, with a smile on my face " i am going to look at it everyday in my beautiful wall unit"

he guessed that i moved the silver and told me to bring it back, i did not engage him, just said, ok.

he told me i was delusional to think i can have everything in the house and sell whatever i want and keep the money. i simply said, darling, remember, u left the house...

he was going crazy because all i continued to say after that was ok, or im sorry u feel that way. i would not engage him further.

he kept trying to engage me when i kept saying ok or sorry u feel that way, told me to stop saying those things and talk.

i said, u are here to play with son, go play with him, stop talking about this with him home and go play with him.

he did.

funny, he still never mentioned contacting his lawyer, never mentioned how i didnt respond to try to settle, never mentioned he wants a divorce.

he seems to just want money. well mazel tov with that lol...


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ok, the text said, "please relax dont hurt our baby"

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ok, the text said, "please relax dont hurt our baby"

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Now that's truly disturbing.

When is she going to be served with the restraining order??

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btw, EXCELLENT JOB with the hubbie!!! You handled that beautifully. whistle whistle

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what do u think she means??????????????????


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I wouldn't even want to guess, but I think you should show it to the police.

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i agree, i need to call them. i called last night, the officer on my case isnt in until tomorrow. i left a message.

my luck my son is home sick today from camp otherwise i would down at the station with my phone records.

i wonder what i did in a past life to deserve all of this. must have been real bad lol.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
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