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Wow trusting a wine cooler. I would have had to hold myself back or I would have marched over to ow's and gave her a piece of my mind. What was she thinking. What an idiot, but makes you wonder how she was raised.


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Trusting, Do you see a bit of comedy in this? I mean, OW thinks she is being cool. Your D sees her as a pathetic loser.

I mean, I would just laugh it off. They want you to rise in mommy fury and just laughing is not the reaction they would expect.


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Forward, Yes, it is something to watch in amazement.

Ml'ers and Ow eventually show their true colors.

Something happened to me today that caused me to laugh hysterically on my way to work. Ex texted me this message: "I have a problem, and I need it fixed". I called him and said, "Ex, I realize you have problems, but you have to help yourself, I can't help you." He said, "not that, I can't figure out my taxes". He needed to know if I had claimed my son or not. His return kept getting rejected. I could not stop laughing. The more I laughed the madder ex got. You know what, I didn't care. It was damn funny. We talked for about 20 minutes and the conversation went rather well after that.


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Trusting, I am glad. Doesn't it feel good to not be the mom?


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Ex called me on his cell tonight to continue to talk about his taxes. As if I care, oh well. I just showed sympathy. Anyway, he left his house to call me away from OW. Oh, I guess I am the girlfriend tonight. I hope OW finds out.


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sneaky sneaky --


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deja vu.....


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yeah -- u'd think the old dog would come up with new tricks.

Seems as though the Bible is right on "there is nothing new under the sun...."

hope u are ok today my friend.


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Trusting, you have quite a novel here. I am glad that you have a sense of humor about things now.


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Another milestone gone.

July 5 was ex's birthday.

I had to pick the kids up in the afternoon.

Ex and OW were in the house.

She was making ex dessert.

Painful

Kids stated that he spent a lot of time riding his motorcycle alone.


I was happy to have all the wonderful memories of his birthday's gone by


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
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3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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