I would respond and tell him you are so glad he is having fun.....with love MOM.....go with it....I mean you are glad your son is having fun...even if x sent it....so what .....
Miss H, just getting caught up on your thread! Is he allowed to take the boys out of state without your permission?? If he is I would get that taken care of. You both should give the other the courtesy of letting each other know when the boys will be out of the state.
One of my friends has it stated in her divorce decree that if the kids are going to be out of state with her ex, she needs it in writing 2 months before. No last minute vacations there!!
I know you have come along way, continue on the path to being independent...your own place, that is a great start...going to school for a new career...excellent!! Don't let the things he says bring you down!! When he gets on a roll, black him out immediately and think about all the good things you have done!
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
We all know they are evil during this MLC process.
They do crappy things like that.
My ex cannot take my kids out of the state unless he tells me about it 2 weeks in advance.
Lately, for me this is not an issue, since he is dead-ass broke and only cares about himself and OW.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
