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Re: Even Puppies Need a Pat [Re: Puppy Dog Tails] #1678352
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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
I miss kissing the most. \:\(
Sure you do!!! \:\/ Yeah, I know what you mean though!!! Karen


Me 53
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Re: Even Puppies Need a Pat [Re: Puppy Dog Tails] #1678356
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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
I miss kissing the most. \:\(


me too puppy

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Quote:
I miss kissing the most


Yes. Me too, Puppy.

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Heck at this point I think I would fall over for a hug! You are going to find that someone special that is going to appreciate you and love you just the way you are. I know several of us are at that point where we just don't see it, but truly it is going to happen. Call it intuition!

kat


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Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Re: Even Puppies Need a Pat [Re: Puppy Dog Tails] #1678386
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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
I miss kissing the most. \:\(


......brushes teeth....mouthwash....chapstick......:)


H 34
W 31
M 11yrs
D 11
D 9

6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage
6-11-08 I found out about OM

7-16thru7-18 she tried didnt work!

8-17 home (just for kids until the end??)
Re: Even Puppies Need a Pat [Re: Puppy Dog Tails] #1678391
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Hey Puppy,

Me again. I just read through this thread. The financial part really does suck, doesn't it? But, if you think about, better a gate keeper in heaven than a king in hell. Money isn't everything, it comes and goes, but we only get one chance at this life. My finances are going to suck--hell I have to rent a room out in my house and depend on her to share our car. Not exactly ideal. When we bought the house (all of 2 1/2 months ago) we were talking about having another baby and adding on a room. We were also going to redo our basement and kitchen. Well so much for those plans. But you will make it, and I will make it. Get that pool table on your own someday. Remember, you can be the gate keeper and she can be the king (or queen I guess).
CR

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Originally Posted By: crafidi
Get that pool table on your own someday.
I think that's a great idea. Root out all the selfish people with that one. If they won't let you have your pool table room, then I think you should move on. I'm trying to think what my dealbreaker can be...I guess put up with my kids and maybe even like them a little? That's probably enough & most important for me! Karen

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Re: Even Puppies Need a Pat [Re: karen43] #1678402
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Originally Posted By: puppy
But I'm really looking forward to some dates and just some good-old-fashioned AFFECTION


Just keep being who your are, and you'll seemingly be trying to beat them off with a stick. ;\)


Me 47, WW 38
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Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."



Re: Even Puppies Need a Pat [Re: hopeful4her] #1678471
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Satin lips. Exfoliate....moisturize...kiss.

Some of my best Christmases were after my divorce, when I had no money to buy gifts for anyone, except a token gift for the kids.... there were about 4-5 lean years.

One year I only had $10 for each kid and that was the year I told them there was no Santa Claus. I'm an idiot. That year Santa showed up on Christmas eve. One family showed up with a tree, lots of gifts for me and each of the kids. My BF sent me gifts for the kids in the mail and wrapping paper so I could choose which for each kid.

Another year, the parish sent me $100.

Another year a family adopted us.

I never 'applied' for any of this.


The first year depressed me. The following years I trusted God and rejoiced with each gift. I also have SEVERAL car gift stories...I'll save that for Easter, because that's when THAT started.

It's humbling....because when we were married, we didn't want for anything.


And what I love about you, is you obey God.

I KNOW God put some things on the hearts of certain people in our path, who did not listen. Most of the gifts that were given to us were from folks who could not afford to give to us. And they did anyway.

TRUST IN HIM.


HAPPY BIRTHDAY JESUS!!!!


sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
Re: Even Puppies Need a Pat [Re: sgctxok] #1678493
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Puppy, I'm glad you are back on these boards. We really do miss you.

Regarding the need for affection...what a big one. I'm sure whatever happens God has good things in store for you.


John
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