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Yup, you heard it. I filed yesterday, and after the Judge heard my story, he has awarded Emergency Sole Custody pending a hearing about Hus' abuse. S15 has started talking. D12 supports his claims. DHS is investigating Hus.
PRAISE GOD.
I'm having internet issues, I'll try to get online tomorrow, or Monday at the latest. I need to go back to court next week to get a Temporary Restraining Order. If I run into trouble, I'll get in touch w/ Kerry. We are very very safe. Whew.
Relief.
Peace.


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Happy for you goldey... Keep walking.
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Excellent news Goldey....

I am relieved with ya!


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Hi Goldey -

I might even see you at the court as I will be there Monday morning at the coffee shop to hopefully become a free man.

Hopefully, your H knows that he has to be a good boy now that DHS is involved. You did good by getting this emergency order in place with the filing.

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Hi Goldey, I'm so glad to hear this. Hang in there, you're strong & are doing great.

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Hang tough goldey!!

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Praying for you Goldey.

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Thanks DB family, I never thought I'd be here, but of course, it had to happen. Doing the right thing is rarely the easy thing.
In an ironic twist of fate, my internet connection is finally working. (S18 stopped by today and helped me out!) Seems things are going my way. I might even buy a lottery ticket, since my luck has been so good!
Folks, I have a feeling the roller coaster is only beginning. Hus plans to contest these charges, which means S15 may have to testify in open court with Hus staring him down. S15 is so very brave to be taking these steps. Way braver than his mom ever was.
With God, all things are possible.
Don't forget to set your clocks back tonight.
Peace. Goldey
p.s. Kerry, I'll be in touch soon.


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(((Goldeylox)))

I will say prayers for you at mass this morning. Stay safe sweetheart.


Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.

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We are safe, Hus can't find us although we are hiding in plain sight. Plus, the man can't walk! (Hard to get up stairs using wheelchair)
I'm trying to find it in my heart to pray for Hus and his healing. There's compassion, and there's stupidity. For now, I'll pray for Peace.


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Filed Oct 08, dismissed
Filed again Jan 10, dismissed
Now Piecing
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