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#1607926 09/30/08 03:43 AM
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Hi all.

I have been coming to this board for about four years.I feel like a oldtimer.LOL

When my ex left me for ow I fell apart.I didn't think I would survive.In fact I would have taken bet on my failure.I crumbled.I don't think I would have ever pulled myself together if it hadn't been for this board.

I was angry.I lashed out,threw fits.Hell did everything wrong.In the end I didn't save my marriage.But for this board I wouldn't have even saved myself.But along the way I got a lot of good advice and a lot of 2x4s.I needed this board.It was a lifeline.

Howeve everything has changed.I miss the old ways.With the help of others I saved myself.So my question is this.If we for what ever reason couldn't save our marriage..........Then why the hell can't we help each other survive the one thing we all didn't want? Divorce is ugly.It hurts.And when we hurt we act hurt.Pain is ugly and when we hurt sometimes we act ugly.Where is the understanding?[censored] we put up with worse from out ex's.

This should be a safe place for all of us.And right now it just doesn't feel safe.

Later Friends.
Briget


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Briget #1608104 09/30/08 12:18 PM
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Hi Bridget,

I agree, this Board doesn't feel safe anymore. Most people are either so angry and hurt by what has happened here lately or they're tiptoeing around, trying not to anger the moderators that be, so that they're not the next ones banned from the Board.

This used to be a great place to be. It's kind of sad.

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Please do help each other. Please don't gossip about each other..especially on the board. And do follow the rules.


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In what way do you think we're gossiping about each other? And if that's true, it's only because no one on this Board has ever received a decent explanation as to what happened here.

And how are the rules not being followed on Bridget's thread???? I guess what I'm saying is why did you feel you needed to make a post like that here?

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Bridget, I agree with you. And Leenie, I agree with you more. What, please tell me, was the reason for the visit? What rule was broken? Geez, the gestapo mentality is out of control.

Bridget, I hope your daughter and the baby are doing well.

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Mods Gone Wild


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Hi Briget!

How are you?

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I'm good.I'm angry about all the crap that has gone on here.But whatcha gonna do?

I'm not sure I'm coming back.You know where to find me.


The grass is always greener over the septic tank... Erma Bombeck Treat hate with Love... DR. Martin Luther King
Briget #1626745 10/22/08 01:57 AM
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Does anyone know what the hell a browser address bar is?

I got talked into starting a myspace.However I can't get on because I can't click the link and it says if I can't click on it to copy and paste it in my browser address bar.Ummm don't know what that is.

Sheesh I should know what one is.Wish one of my kids was here.LOL


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That would be the white space at the top of your page where you usually type in addresses of webpages you want to visit, like http://www.divorcebusting.com \:\)

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