Maybe we weren't together long enough, but I never thought my spouse completed me. I do feel that I lost myself somewhere along the way trying to please her and plan for my family's future. I forgot to take care of myself and in turn wasn't taking care of my family.
I know the feeling of not missing the W. Thinking back to recent times makes it easy to be okay with the way things are now. The only time I miss my W is when I think of the future and how I imagined it when we got married.
Keep sharing your feelings and advice. Thanks for all your help.