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Congrats! When is it legally binding?


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it is legally binding the moment it is ready and we sign it, all I need now is for the mediator to call me to either tell me when it will be ready or (hopefully not) that we need to meet one more time as the changes I submitted to him were 1.5pgs long.

oh please let him just do them and have us sign it! we dont' even have to be there at the same time, just exchange docts with our signature on them.


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Hope it all goes smoothly for ya sweets.


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HI cat,

HOpe you don't have to meet again, and that the mediator can make your changes. AFter a time, I know that more meetings just means more pain.

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hi and hugs to you today.

you are doing just fine.

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Cat, you'll be in my prayers tonight. Let us know how it goes.


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smooches to all)))))))) today is another 800 in the wheel of fortune, I thought my acct went under but it didnt, yey!! and saw online that the bank already opened an account for my loan \:\)
Mediator's email was confusing, he said he was out of town today but that we could finalize things next week, whatever that means, guess he could still say we need a meeting, cross your fingers for me!

I'm redoing my bedroom, to give it anew feel, (love craigslist.com!) found a lovely distressed white dresser mirror, and as soon as I got extra dough will change my closet's doors for mirrors, always wanted to do that, it's the master bedroom but it is rather small. Have a blessed wkend everyone! it's going to rain here, but it's mommy's day wkend, will pig out at my church's potluck tomorrow then again at my brother's on sunday, he he


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Re-doing the bedroom sounds like a great idea. Out with the old, in with the new. A new, better, look for a new, better you!


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D filed: 2/24/08
D final on 7/07/08

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got that right \:\) it helps me tons emotionally, puts me in a different frame of mind


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