The contact with kids is a problem for me, too. I want my husband tobe able to spend time with the kids--he has always been a hands-on dad. However, he is here every night, in time for dinner , and stays until the kids go to bed. He also wants to sleep over in the extra bed on teh weekends. I am a SAHM with four kids, he pays all the bills, how can I tell him that he cannot spend time with the kids in the housr he is paying for even when he does not live in it?
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
Sorry lucas, I've been away. My W lives with our D24, I drove D home from work, stayed for a while D's BF asked if I was staying for dinner. I said no I was meeting a friend for a couple of drinks. He said loudly Big Mike has a date. I didn't confirm or deny. Went to the bowling alley where I used to bowl, saw some friends, had a couple of beers. Came home and parked my car around the corner from the house. W drove by the house that morning at 4:30 on her way to work.
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26
Your situation sounds so similar to mine! My H is here, at the house he pays for, and only leaves when kids are asleep. How do I detach? Go dark, etc.? Is it a good thing that he can't detach yet either? Or is he just a cake-eater? What did u do?
Ezekiel37 Me 33 H 34 M 13 years S9 S11 Bomb 1/7/13 Moved out 3/7/13