The reason I am upset about this is because I email some people about certain things I do not want public on this board. OK if they don't want me posting my email details in my posts by why let me put it as public in my profile as a choice for months and then remove that with NO explanation?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
At least I think they could explain the reasons for the changes - is that too much to ask for?
Don't get me wrong, this isn't taking over my life or anything - I just dislike people arbitrarily changing things without any reasonable explanation. Things worked well - why change then?
Even you say you don't like the changes - so why not say so and stand up for yourself?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
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You're a cleaver guy! HOWEVER, if you want to continue posting here you must not post ANY personal contact information. Please consider this an official warning.
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I also noticed that you can't do multiple searches one after another. They make you wait for a period of time.
What's up with that?
Drew -
This is nothing new. Perhaps you just didn't notice before. The waiting time between searches is necessary to control the load put on our server. It's a technical solution to keep the site running smoothly.
I also noticed that you can't do multiple searches one after another. They make you wait for a period of time.
What's up with that?
Drew -
This is nothing new. Perhaps you just didn't notice before. The waiting time between searches is necessary to control the load put on our server. It's a technical solution to keep the site running smoothly.
Thank goodness for this one, as searches bring the system to a crawl! They are probably the cause of many a double post.
As far as the off board contact thing, well, I disagree with it, but I don't get a vote. I know for a fact that many good DB related things happen off board, when time is really important, and hoping someone will see a post just doesn't cut it. of course, I imagine there has been non DB activity as well. So there you go.
