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qoe100 #1210719 09/25/07 02:00 AM
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Oh yeah, I feel like knocking the crap out of...


Me 45
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Married 23yrs
D22
S18
D12
W moved out 1/12/07
Divorce Final 2/06/08
Fender #1210755 09/25/07 02:27 AM
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Awww sorry you are going through that. That sucks. You are a such a great guy. I hope you feel a little better since you vented.

Thanks for the compliment and for checking in on me :-)


Christy
M: 31
H: 33
Married ~ 13 years
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Bomb 10/05 supposedly ended A
2nd bomb 12/30/05
Separated 01/06
I filed 6/12/07 ~ new ow 3wks after moving out
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#1211009 09/25/07 01:22 PM
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Well a good nights sleep and some good coffee this morning has my PMA back to where I like it. Hope all is well in DB land?


Me 45
WAW 46
Married 23yrs
D22
S18
D12
W moved out 1/12/07
Divorce Final 2/06/08
#1211242 09/25/07 04:30 PM
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Hey Fender,

Funny how your wife is in the wrong yet you end up feeling bad for her. What's wrong with this picture? Don't get me wrong, I'm not being critical, I know all too well how that feels.

Possibly she said what she did to your son because these walkaways seem to become very self centered. Maybe it's nothing more than her wanting him to think this.

Who really knows why,but what I do know is that she made a choice, and there are consequences. Do you really think that if you had let her off the hook she would spend her time thinking what a great guy you are? If she understood that she wouldn't have left in the first place.

BethM #1211419 09/25/07 07:05 PM
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Beth I know you are right and that is why I feel much better today. It is her problem, not mine.


Me 45
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Married 23yrs
D22
S18
D12
W moved out 1/12/07
Divorce Final 2/06/08
Fender #1211429 09/25/07 07:10 PM
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Well I have been having back problems for a few years now. Back in the spring I finally told the doctor I need some help. She sent me to physical therapy.

Well we all know how that works? So, still in pain I went back and asked again for some help. This time she sent me for a MRI. Lo and behold guess what, I have a bulging disk that is pressing on a nerve. So now she is referring me to a neuro-surgeon.

So it is a matter of good news/bad news. It is nice to finally get confirmation that something is wrong with my back. However, if I need surgery then school is out for the next semester.

I am just going to wait and she what sawbones has to say and then go from there.


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W moved out 1/12/07
Divorce Final 2/06/08
#1211904 09/26/07 02:33 AM
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Thanks HS, I can always use some good mojo.


Me 45
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Married 23yrs
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D12
W moved out 1/12/07
Divorce Final 2/06/08
Fender #1211921 09/26/07 02:48 AM
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That sucks Fender. Sorry man. Listen if they suggest surgery...i suggest getting a 2nd opinion. Back surgery is something to be avoided if at all possible.


Scott: 38
X: 39
M: 13yrs D: 12/12/08
S9, D8, S6
MLC/EA/PA
Bomb: 8/10/06 S: 01/07 Asked for D: 05/07 Mediation 07/07

"And when all's been said and done
It's the things that are given, not won
Are the things that you want"
- Gomez; See the World
swashy #1211929 09/26/07 02:54 AM
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Funny you should mention that Scott. My GF said the same thing and she got it from her Orthopedic Surgeon son who said to only get back surgery as a last resort. Funny how a surgeon, even if he isn't a neuro-surgeon, said to avoid back surgery.


Me 45
WAW 46
Married 23yrs
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W moved out 1/12/07
Divorce Final 2/06/08
Fender #1211941 09/26/07 03:06 AM
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I think a lot of times it doesn't work and it carries a lot of risks too. I've heard the "last resort" thing from several people. When it does work...it's fantastic...but when it doesn't...ugh.


Scott: 38
X: 39
M: 13yrs D: 12/12/08
S9, D8, S6
MLC/EA/PA
Bomb: 8/10/06 S: 01/07 Asked for D: 05/07 Mediation 07/07

"And when all's been said and done
It's the things that are given, not won
Are the things that you want"
- Gomez; See the World
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