It was a bit extreme. She was running a wicked fever and talking non-sense.
I hope she is feeling better now. That does sound extreme.
Well sometimes she talks non-sense anyway, so that really wasn't that extreme. The doc put her on antibiotics and she was feeling a bit better yesterday.
Me 45 WAW 46 Married 23yrs D22 S18 D12 W moved out 1/12/07 Divorce Final 2/06/08
Well sometimes she talks non-sense anyway, so that really wasn't that extreme. The doc put her on antibiotics and she was feeling a bit better yesterday.
I am glad she is feeling better. Everyone talks non-sense once in a while I think. Keeps life interesting.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
Well I was able to find out some good info on the Volvo. The bad news is it requires me to order more parts. It seems the head bolts are not reusable so I have to order new ones, 14 of them in fact.
On a good note I was able to get the brakes working on S18's car yesterday. It only took a master cylinder and two wheel cylinders. Plus, I had to make a new brake line. S18 is really stoked about his $200.00 car, well it was two hundred but I now have about four hundred in it. One of the neighborhood kids offered him five for it already.
Me 45 WAW 46 Married 23yrs D22 S18 D12 W moved out 1/12/07 Divorce Final 2/06/08
I just got an e-mail from my music professor. He gives extra credit points for d@mn near anything. Points for using webct, points for coming to class on a Friday night and watching a movie, points for listening exercises done on your time.
Well now he has decided that those that have more than 20 points, I have 34, can take the next test from any location. The tests are computer based and located on webct. Normally you have to take the tests in the computer lab with a proctor present. Now he letting some of us take it without a proctor. Strange, I can't see the benifit in it?
Also now that I have went to the Philharmonic I get to skip a term paper. Wednesday I am going to see the play "Mame" on Wednesday night. That will earn me the right to skip the final exam, yay me!
Me 45 WAW 46 Married 23yrs D22 S18 D12 W moved out 1/12/07 Divorce Final 2/06/08
HS I definitely know how much I have gained. I can't imagine how I would have made it without this board and these people I call friends. Hopefully here soon I will feel good enough to help out the newbies.
Christy M: 31 H: 33 Married ~ 13 years S12 S8 Bomb 10/05 supposedly ended A 2nd bomb 12/30/05 Separated 01/06 I filed 6/12/07 ~ new ow 3wks after moving out http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1094955&page=0#Post1094955
Ok, I am going to vent a little here. Everyone pretty much knows I have had a streak of bad luck lately? I mean stuff breaking and costing me money.
So the W is supposed to send me money twice a month. Each time is on one of her two paydays a month. This is something she agreed to in the separation agreement. This is not even support, I am supporting our D12 without help from her.
No, this is for her car insurance. She is still on my policy. It is also for the camper that is in my name that she is living in. I make the monthly payment and she is supposed to pay me back each month.
I say all of that to say this. I was supposed to get a check from her Monday last week. All week passes by and no check. So today I call her and leave a voice message stating I could really use the money she owes me. Calling her made me feel like a heel, even though it is her that is not living up to the agreement. Plus I really need the money this month.
Well before she gets off of work S18 tells me how W told him last night she didn't even have the money to make her car payment this month. WTF, I cannot for the life of me figure out what she is doing with her money? So now I really feel bad, even though I shouldn't because it is not my fault.
Later she calls and says to send S18 around to pick up a check. I tell her if she doesn't have it to just hang on till next payday. She just gets cranky and says to send S18. I tell her not to give me a back check, I don't need the hassle. She says it is a good check and to mind my own business.
So there you have my vent. I am the one owed money and I had to ask for it instead of her sending it. Heck, she could have called to say she was short and I would have understood. But no, she makes me feel bad for asking for what she rightfully owes me. Like I said, this isn't even support, it's just repayment for what I am already sending out on her behalf.
Ok, vent over.
Me 45 WAW 46 Married 23yrs D22 S18 D12 W moved out 1/12/07 Divorce Final 2/06/08
Hey Fender, I'm going through the same thing with my X and the money he owes me. Why is it that we feel like a schmuck for "having" to ask for what is ours? Geeze!!!! Don't ya just wanna punch em out?
Everyone talks non-sense once in a while I think. Keeps life interesting. 
