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Well G that’s great and you should stay with this guy he sounds amazing but you are typically complaining when a guy doesn’t try so I guess you are changing?

What does humble and real even mean? Because Sprial can afford old fashion cars makes him not real?

Also, most present fathers just parent. I know you hate when they make it clear their children come first.


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Originally Posted by OnlyBent
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I like attractive, fit woman and I don’t hide behind it.


Nor should you hide, I like the same. What's attractive is different for everyone, I prefer dark, exotic types.

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I think you are misunderstanding the term resources. It’s not just money. Being fit is a resource, being funny is a resource, being able to listen is a resource. How much of that can you display on An OLD profile? That’s why 100% it is better to meet people in person.

I agree with this with that definition of resources. Very difficult to show those qualities on OLD, so you need to be fit, decent looking, have good photos and most importantly no turn offs. Maybe that's the point you've been making the whole time.
That is the point I’ve been trying to make. On top of all of that it’s still extremely difficult to OLD. Having most the qualities women typically look for I thought it would be easy for me. Well I was never more wrong. So I had to know why EVERYONE complains OLD doesn’t work. I know now and at least at makes sense to me now.


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i nearly signed up to OLD over this weekend just gone and having read these threads, i am very glad that anxiety got the better of me and i decided not to!

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Mark I would recommend keeping all options open.


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I find this thread very interesting and entertaining. Got a close friend who is deep into OLD. It seems that he is having success meeting women but not finding what he would consider a suitable long time partner. I think he is overvaluing himself or his standards are potentially to high. He is only 1/3 on the sixes ($$$). Some of his complaints are:

If she would just lose 20 pounds
If she was just 2 Years younger
If she was just a bit more attractive
If she had a better job

I think he likes the chase but tires of the catch when she doesn’t stand up to his EX appearance wise. He admits that most are a better person than his Ex.

I am not sure if I will enter the fray after the divorce is final or not. I am 6’-1” 170lbs, have a six pack, and make 6 figures…. If I only had a full head of hair.

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Taz,

Yeah sounds like he’s not ready yet. I went through that phase too.

As far as hair I completely shave my head with a salt and pepper goatee. Ginger loves it lol.


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LH19,

Read a little bit about sprezzatura. Depending on the presentation, chilled champagne has the power to overcome a character flaw or two.

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Crazy fact: A child is a 100 times more likely to be killed living in a household with a non-biological parent. That's nuts!


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so should I be grateful my kid lives with me instead of exh and 2.0?


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Originally Posted by LH19
Crazy fact: A child is a 100 times more likely to be killed living in a household with a non-biological parent. That's nuts!

Wrong crowd for a stat like that!


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