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CanBird #2921994 07/30/21 11:34 AM
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Hmmm.

Apparently apostrophes and quotation marks get altered to a string of weird characters.

That, and the upload/post time is rather long. I suspect the censoring algorithm is a bit off.

And I cannot seem to find the report button.

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Now: Me53 XW49 S24 S23 S20 D19

Oct 8/17-BD, Moves in w/OM, Leaves Kids
Me49 W46 S20 S19 S16 D15
M26 T29
Dec 9/17-Legal Separation
Oct 3/18-W Files
Apr 6/19-Divorced

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DnJ,

It took me a few minutes yesterday to find the report button. The report button now looks like a little flag directly across from the time stamp of when you posted. Also, the issue about things being altered by a string of weird characters...that has been going on for years...another issue that has not been fixed, and tends to pop back up into the system with upgrades. I have been requesting for years that the edit button be reactivated on the divorce forum. Lots of issues and I do not understand the big "D" which stands for the first letter of your member ID. There is no need for that to be there.


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The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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Congratulations! You are rocking this independence thing!

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Congratulations! You are rocking this independence thing!

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Originally Posted by job
Also, the issue about things being altered by a string of weird characters...that has been going on for years...another issue that has not been fixed, and tends to pop back up into the system with upgrades.
This is just a character encoding issue (set to iso-8859-1, should be utf-8), should be an easy fix. I've sent an message to the moderator that may help. :-)


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BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21)
Divorce Filed (16 July '21)
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smilie,

Who did you send your message to? Michele and Virginia or to Cadet and myself (moderators)? If you sent it to Cadet and/or me, I, personally have not received your message, which means that portion of the update has not been fixed either.

I do want to point out, the moderators cannot fix platform issues. We can send a message to the Administrator with the issue...but they do not work on the weekends. Cadet and I are volunteers and we pop in periodically throughout the week, as well as weekends. Cadet and I are aware of the issue with the weird characters and it will be addressed with an Administrator via email on Monday.

For those reading, if you have issues with the format, please post them on the thread that was created to advise all of you of the update. The thread is on this forum, as well as Newcomers and Divorce.

Sorry for the hi-jack on this thread!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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Exhusband quit his job. I'm in the process of putting D5 on my H ins. Thankful I have it. He also changed his cell number. When I got my own phone plan & kept my number, apparently that messed up his phone. Makes no sense. I don't care. I believe he did it to ghost more people.

I talk to my step MIL often. She says she can't stand him. His behavior. And his own father is feeling the same. I see ex more & more of a WAS. Especially now with quitting his job. Vagabond life. Good for you. Zero responsibility. He has no job and hasn't contacted his daughter in awhile. That's on him. She seems okay. I just give her extra love.

Tired.

Bye for now


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2019
Mar BD
June BD
Dec Aow/xgf
2020
Jan he wants D
Feb he flys2 ow
Mar returns stuck here C19 Lckdwn
Apr he leaves for work until Nov
Oct D FINAL 2020
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