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Re: Made it a year - part 4 [Re: kas99] #2900324
07/21/20 03:12 PM
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He's not doing well because he "might" have to pay more than he is now and the cash isn't flowing as much as it was. He spent instead of saving so he's not ready for this. He thought when he walked out that the D would only cost $250 and he wouldn't have to pay me anything so he's just mad.

Yesterday marked the one year anniversary of NC, 15 months since the BD. Still can't believe I'm getting a divorce after 30 years together and while I'm incredibly sad life is surprisingly better without him in it.

Re: Made it a year - part 4 [Re: kas99] #2900329
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Glad to hear your attorney is on it. I never understood why you didn't have an order for temporary support right from the start.

Re: Made it a year - part 4 [Re: kml] #2900333
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Originally Posted by kml
Glad to hear your attorney is on it. I never understood why you didn't have an order for temporary support right from the start.


I tried to "nice" him back so I cancelled the hearing scheduled right after he left. Held onto hope until he cancelled the lease. I knew in my gut at that point that there was someone else and she was confirmed a couple months later. I filed the next day but that attorney was inept and I don't like confrontations. Took me a while to get mad but I like to believe everything happens for a reason so waiting actually benefited me.

Re: Made it a year - part 4 [Re: kas99] #2901499
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Hey Kas99,

Hows life going?

Hows your detachment going (not caring if lifes going swell or mediocre for your ex)?


May'19 - Separation... Dec'19 - Breakup #1... Oct'20 - Breakup #2.... Jan'21 - Breakup #3
"We are never, ever, ever getting back together." -- T.Swift
Re: Made it a year - part 4 [Re: kas99] #2905325
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Hey Kas,

It's been a couple months. I hope no news is good news. Take care!


May'19 - Separation... Dec'19 - Breakup #1... Oct'20 - Breakup #2.... Jan'21 - Breakup #3
"We are never, ever, ever getting back together." -- T.Swift
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