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Don’t jump on tonight. Make him earn it.

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Originally Posted by LH19
Don’t jump on tonight. Make him earn it.



Ohhhhh, I didn’t even think of it that way. I like it! I get my rest and I see how interested he is!!

I felt like I would an idiot if I threw away an opportunity after all my b1tching

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Originally Posted by doodler

Go out tomorrow night.



I’m supposed to seeing another guy tomorrow afternoon. I’m not sure what time yet though.

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...... and I’ve been talking to this HOT firefighter who lives very close to me. My age, single dad......

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Darned shame that there's no available men in the entire state of NJ ... laugh


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Tell him to come over because you have a fire that needs putting out lol.

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I agree, even if you sit home in your jam jams with a pint of Ice Cream do not go out tonight or tomorrow. You already have plans and are booked.


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Well now I got myself in a pickle. This guy wants to see me tomorrow afternoon and the other guys hasn’t confirmed tomorrow afternoon

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He shouldn’t expect you to jump through hoops within 24 hours.

He definitely is not a coach protégé making the first date a day date.

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Different day same MO. It’s M all over again - but you can’t see it. The body should be in the morgue by now but there is Ginger trying the defibrillator on asystole (That does not work and is contraindicated) to raise what was termed dead - by her!!!

Do you see the similarity? Your words say one thing - guys have to earn it, I’m not putting in more work, blah blah blah, but your actions say, show me just a little bit of interest and I’ll run to you.

Don’t go and instead spend the night re-reading why men love bitches because you keep breaking these rules and doing the same things and expecting different results. As if he was soooooooooooo busy he could not have asked you out days ago? No, he waits either to find something better or because he’s not sure. WMLB talks exactly about this and says never to accept last minute dates from guys that could have asked earlier.

Although... didn’t you already have a date planned with him a week ago????????? That part, if true, is confounding and conflicting.


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