Yes you are correct - no affairs. Thank-you for weighing in. This is very helpful. I have to think about this in terms of reconciling - yes, have strong boundaries, but also validate validate validate. I would like to tattoo "validation doesn't mean agreement" on my forearm or somewhere I will see it every time I open my mouth HA!
Yes, the definition of rage does not apply here - that was an exaggeration, according to the definition - he does become aggressive in his speech and manner, but he does not threaten my well being.
Thank-you. It is SO helpful to have this reflected back to me. Thank-you.
I ordered one of Michele's older books on how to talk to your husband so he will listen and have read the Divorce busting latest book a number of times now! It's so interesting how I can easily fall back into certain behaviour patterns.
Me 41 H 34 Son 3.5 Married almost 4 years West Coast of Canada
and have read the Divorce busting latest book a number of times now! It's so interesting how I can easily fall back into certain behaviour patterns.