Ginger - it is expected that you will process and feel and heal. As you do that, just remember you deserve better! Relationships are a two way street requiring work from both parties and lots of communication. And with that can come much reward. But everything worth having in this world requires work! You can’t shoulder it all.
Painful as it is, it is best you tested him now to see how he withstood a little bumpiness in the road. He did not pass the test.
You deserve a mutually loving relationship. Anything less than that is not worthy of your time.
Thx for always being one of many voices of reason on my thread!
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
