You are too involved with what's going on with your WW Affair. Why do you know so much about all of the interworkings? Because you are entertaining your W and her conversations on her A. You are sending her the message that you are willing to accept what's she has done. She's actively in an A, an you must let her know with your actions, that what's she's doing is not ok and you don't and won't accept her actions.
Why are you telling her about what the OM W is doing or going to do? IMO, that was a way to control your WW. If they want to be together or get together, they will find away to get together.
If you want your WW, to start CHOOOOOOOOOOSING you then you must make yourself the better option. Right now she is disrespecting you and you are allowing her too. You are being her friend and not her husband. Start respecting yourself by stop allowing her to disrespect you.
If a word of the OM and their relationship comes out of her mouth, you tell her, I don't want to hear that Sh$t! If she don't respect your wishes, get up and walk away.
Why are you driving her around?
Joejoe
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
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