For whatever reason I felt a need to update those that have followed my story.
W says she is moving out on 2/22. She has an apartment. Both W and D17 have been nicer the last several weeks. I suspect guilt. Me? I'm good. I've continued to GAL, stayed upbeat and rarely react when W has updated on her exit. Time will tell. I'll try to update more
RR, I know this is not what you wanted, but maybe it will be a good thing. Do you know for sure she has an apartment? We've seen this show before.
Yes, she has a place. The movers come next Friday. W is not a bluffer. She delivered a list of things she plans to take. I calmy acknowledged.
My challenge is to manage my state at least around her.
It's not what I ultimately wanted but it is what I helped facilitate. I refused to leave.
I'm not really sure I would ever want her back. I have begun to fantasize about my upcoming options. I'm sure feelings will change.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
