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I understand Job,

Thank you again.
Once I can write more I will.
Now as I stated so much has
Happened is like being in a
Nightmare. I wish I can say my story
Is getting better. Unfortunately my ex
Has the financial memes I don't
I do cook and sell things but not enough
To hire a lawyer as I been told my several lawyers
This is a high custody case. The only thing I have by
My side is the truth and God. So much lies is still
Unbelievable.

Thank you again 🙏


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S9,D9,S8 adopted all three
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So sorry to hear the turn your situation has taken
I have no words except to continue to gain strength through your spiritual beliefs as you have and see what
happens
I strongly believe that if we continue our growth and surrender to what is --while taking proper action with integrity,
God will take care of the rest

Unfortunately the kids are in the middle, but you still get custody 1 week on one off...correct?

So in your week, as you are already doing.--.just love them and continue to let them know you are there

time goes so fast and my youngest is graduating and they will be adults with their own minds to choose and she will have No power-

There is no way for her to escape..no matter what she tries to do because in the end Karma will be the one in control-
((HUGS)))


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Peacetoday,

Thank you for always your kind words

Yes for sure Karma.
And the story is way worse then I wrote
But I also see the light through this and see
God plans. Unfortunately financially is the reason am
Here. My ex has the OW and her family.

What I have is God and I have a peace in my mind
I know I never wanted this and W is simply out of control

What the last couple months have taught me is to
take control of my life and boundaries, and W doesn't
Like boundaries so in her words am going to punish you

And the 3 beautiful kids are involved and torn.

Am still here, I have faith and have forgiveness W I also
Know there's to much damage she has done not only with
Me but have hurt 3 beautiful children's.

I am keeping my faith and God and I talk and I keep asking him
To keep guiding me. His plans are bigger then my plans.

And thank you and hoping my story can be told


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Lesbian marriage
Me39,W36
S9,D9,S8 adopted all three
Together almost 10yrs
Bomb Drop - April 2017
W movedout - May,2017
OW June,2017
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Me40, W38
S10,D10,S9
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Hoping we can come together to help
Others.
In my opinion we are like family here and if one is hurting we should be able to help and if there's left over funding I know there's always another family can use.

I honestly need a lawyer I am in mylast hope.

Praying is all I can do. Pray for a Miracle to save 3 small children's


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Me39,W36
S9,D9,S8 adopted all three
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Bomb Drop - April 2017
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Me40, W38
S10,D10,S9
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Marina, so sorry to hear about all this. It sounds so awful.

What you said about her eyes -- The eyes are really a window onto their damaged souls! -- I keep having the thought about my H too, that the eyes are so evil. Likewise his L.

Can you watch youtube videos on going pro se? It is not ideal but you do have rights and you can learn how to file motions. I did it for a different case and almost did it for my D but then was able to borrow some money.

You can also call the ACS anonymously if you think that the kids are in danger. Or enlist their help to work as a team.

Or maybe you can get free legal help -- maybe someone can advise you about going pro se even if they can't actually be your lawyer. It seems like you have been abuse, if not physically then emotionally and most definitely financially. There is free legal help for victims of abuse.


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I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living.
Wait for the Lord with courage.
Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.
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And you are there Marina, standing tall. Fighting for the right cause. You are the model there. Stand strong!

Hope.


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T: 27 M: 22
S: 18
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