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Hi marina

Nice to hear.

It is funny how more often than not - no news is good news.

How big is Apollo now? If I recall, he is just over one year old. He probably is eating like a ... well a one year old German Shepard, which in food consumption is remarkably close to a horse! Lol.

Keep taking it a day at a time.

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DnJ,

Well there's some crazy things happening am just
sitting in the back seat.

I am doing my part of what court wants.

I have gotten some text from family I haven't spoken too

"You should have left things how they where"

I keep ignoring.

S9 is now s10. I now have double DIGITS kids.
S10 and d10 will be 11yrs old in a month and 2 weeks.

Wow time is flying with Trio's.

Apollo yes he eats like a horse. Lol I mix food with Rice it helps with dog food

He is 86lbs and only 1yrs old and 2 month.

Finally sun is peaking out hoping for Spring in 2 or 3 weeks

Been asking around for dog parks or places where we can go with Apollo.


Apollo does keep me busy when trio's are not here. And when trio's and Apollo
Are together is a crazy house. But the smile in my kids face is priceless.


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Hi M

Wow. All double digits! And growing like weeds I bet. smile

Mixing Apollo’s food with rice is a good idea. That stuff’s expensive, dang.

I laughed at the thought of an 86 pound dog ripping around with trio - crazy house for sure! Three kids to to one dog, wonder who tires out first. Probably marina. Ha ha.

As for the text and other stuff. Keep ignoring. You’re in the back seat and doing your part of court arrangements, and thriving.

Your light is shining, you and kids are smiling.

(((marina)))

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Hi M

Glad you are doing well
and Apollo is a real blessing


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Hello Everyone,

Nothing much in this front.

W went from peaking out to gone again

I have learned through this just living life

Trios and I are taking it a day at a time


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Hi M

Glad things are quiet

Not having theMlcer here has brought me peace and quietness

As long as the kids are good- there is no need to interact

this way we can let go more and find our new normal-and move forward


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Hello everyone...

So here I am still standing, unfortunately since without
a lawyer they have gave her residential

And then last week I got a restraining order out of no where
W stating she fears for her life and children's

Here I am lost and confused how can this happen
Out of no where.

Many will ask why would W do that.

Because I have learned to do boundaries
I no longer allow W to tell me what to do
W sees that now am not bothered as I have learned
To live without W so on my week I take care of children's
And on her week ak usually keeping myself busy.

W started asking me questions of where am going or in W
Words who am doing
Woke up one morning to flat tires
But unfortunately I have no Cameras or
Anything to say I have proof.

I really need help in hiring a lawyer I saved up but still
In need of 3,500. I have spoken to several lawyers
And as they all said this is a high conflict case and bias
From GAL.

I wish I could write more but is so bad is crazy to see
How W has trash my name and accusations of things I never
Thought W would do.

I am still in therapy and my therapist has stated she believes
W is bipolar and narcissist
I know we shouldn't label them but I honestly don't think
W is going through a MLC, W is out to hurt me and children's

The evilness in W eyes is crazy.

I am taking it a day at a time, still in support groups
Since not having a lawyer it has been h@ll for us. Me and
My kids.


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I understand that you are in a financial bind, however, I have sent a note to the administrator to see if GoFundMe accounts are allowed on the forum. I am asking that posters please hold off donating until I have an answer from the administrators about whether or not this is allowed here on the forum. As soon as I receive an answer, I'll return and let everyone know.


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That’s a wonderful idea Job.

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marina,

If you do not have a Facebook page, I would suggest that you set one up and put the GoFundMe link there so that your friends can donate to help you w/your legal fees, etc. Unfortunately, we can't allow such links here as they are not DB links.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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