Oh no, here we go again... Your (sic) killing us. LMAO
Originally Posted by Joseph9
I will say she was very surprised at my skills and early on during our session she had to stop a couple of times because she was loosing her mind.
I think I just choked on my popcorn, or through up a little in my mouth? Dude, enough with the TMI details already, I know you're excited but. Um ah, yeah I'm at a loss for words... Losing her mind....
So did Ginger win the bet? Seems like LH19 was also very much on target. Both seem to be winners - at least partly.
Seriously, I'm glad you are happy. I'm just so fearful that you have zero idea where you want to head or what you are in for but hey at least you didn't get married. Glad you got what you wanted and hope it helps!
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
Sounds good man! Glad you got the monkey of your back. IMO 4 dates is way too early to go exclusive but if you really think you are ready to settle down then to each his own.
You really say some interesting things sometimes. I'm glad you weren't grossed out by her body.
Get back to the fundamentals so this doesn't go south on you.
I only mentioned her body because there were concerns that she wasnt my type. Anyway I appreciate the thoughts and support. I am going to take a break for a while I hope you all have some downtime and can enjoy the holidays with your family and friends.
Please start a new thread and link this thread to the new one. I will come back around and link your new one to this one since I have locked it. Many thanks!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I understand that the second "first" time really is an emotional experience. Confusing feelings come along.
I know it seems like we have been kind of hard on you, but we do know this isn't so easy and maybe as big brothers and sisters do, we tease a little, but we are trying to protect you. But you are a big boy and don't need it.
All relationships do not end. Sometimes they just simply change, but they don't all have to end.
I'm glad to hear you weren't "grossed out" but I never thought you would be grossed out by someone who wasn't quite your type. Maybe not as attracted, but I truly never expected you to be grossed out. If that was your fear and mindset, I can see why going outside of your norm is daunting. I was grossed out once. And it wasn't by body type alone. It was the unattractive side effects of his self admitted neglected health that did it for me.
Anyways, the only advice you really need to be sticking to is be true to yourself, and everything else will fall into place.
I only mentioned her body because there were concerns that she wasnt my type. Anyway I appreciate the thoughts and support. I am going to take a break for a while I hope you all have some downtime and can enjoy the holidays with your family and friends.
With all due respect, YOU were the one who continued to post about how she wasn't your type. We all just pointed it out, AFTER you did, repeatedly. And with the one before her, you pointed out a lot how great her body was. So, obviously that certain type is very important to you. To each his own, my man, and more power to you. You like what you like. No judgment here.
Honestly, I wish you nothing but the best and am glad you had a good "first" experience. It is a lot, the first time you have sex with someone after D. Most of us here have already been down that path and know how daunting it can be for a variety of reasons. Good luck with this lady and Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and your daughters.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
It makes me both sad and angry that you're already talking about this woman - this fellow human being - in such a disrespectful way as this.
If I had been out on a couple of dates with a guy, with the aim of something longer term, then slept with him, and found out that he'd said he wasn't 'grossed out' by my body, and that he'd been impressive (or whatever) in bed, I honestly wouldn't even bother calling him back. I'd just cut him as dead as dead can be and move right on with my life.
Ages ago, about 2 odd years ago now (about a month before I met my partner) I went out on a date with someone who thought they were God's gift. Handsome and good looking? Yes, he was. And he really obviously wanted to sleep with me. But good heavens above, he was boring as hell...so, so full of himself, and so shallow with it. I couldn't wait to get away. We had a couple of drinks and that was it. I feel like I had a lucky escape that evening.
It's been a good while since I've been this hacked off at someone online.
If it's mindless shagging you're after, with some hot chick with blonde hair and false knockers, then fair enough. Just go after that, but at least be above board about it.
If it's an R you're after, then also fair enough. Just please don't talk so disrespectfully about the person you hope to be in an R with.
Also, having been on the receiving end of personal comments from guys (mainly because I wouldn't give them what they wanted), I know from experience how darn hurtful they are...whatever the circumstances. 25 years on, I still remember some of them.
