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Hey, you like what you like.

So, how do you feel about a woman who posts bikini pics and low cut dress pics on social media? How does that come across to you? Is shenlike out having fun and they are one of action shots or does she look like she really wants that validation and male attention?

Hey, good thing is she isn’t hiding her agenda and it might be sex sex sex!

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Good heavens...away from the forum for a few days and so much to catch up on!


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Hot sausage
Hot sausage
Hot sausage

Sausage?


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Date set for Friday night. I had my daughters this past week Nef so no funny business. G....the pics of her wearing her bikini are on the back of a jetski with her 11 yr old daughter (you really couldn't see anything). The premise of the picture is her having fun with her family not in Jamaica with soap suds in the swimming pool doing body shots. The picture of her in the dress looks to be at a brunch with 4 of her girl friends. 3 of them are sitting down in chairs and she is kind of bending over behind them smiling. You can't see anything but you can tell. Again not at the club getting tipsy, grinding some dude on the dance floor wearing glow sticks.

I do not get the vibe from her that she is just looking for sex. She sent me a picture yesterday wearing her son's high school spirit gear as she was at his wrestling meet all day Saturday. She was very mom looking.

LH........how did the dates go????? Did you go for 4 separate kisses?


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Originally Posted by Joseph9
LH........how did the dates go????? Did you go for 4 separate kisses?


This coming week starting tomorrow. I had the kids past weekend.

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Oh and on a side note.....I get this text from the XW last night.

XW - Depressing coming home with you not here.

ME - Um.....probably wrong person.

XW - Whoops sorry.

I will just say that it felt really good to have no emotion over this. I almost responded with a very smart ass answer but I refrained.



Ah ok.......make sure you give me some updates smile

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So the one tomorrow as we have discussed in the past, I got her availability and picked a time and a place that I would meet her.

Her: I think it's great that you even made the effort to pick the place. Thank you for that.
Me: Not a problem it is my pleasure
Her: It's a rarity
Me: Well I like to think that I'm one of a kind lol
Her: Ha. Oh great I see your head inflating now

I don't care what DH says, if you get the fundamentals down it works like a charm.

Most men are truly clueless lol.

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I started reading the book again......I think this is my 7th time. Remember L......women are like cats and sometimes they just want to go roam the neighborhood smile

I think you have just reached Unicorn status.............


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Originally Posted by Joseph9
...She sent me a picture yesterday wearing her son's high school spirit gear as she was at his wrestling meet all day Saturday. She was very mom looking....


Just double checking...I may have gotten the wrong end of the stick entirely here: do you mean a picture of her wearing her teenage son's sports gear?


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I know brother. I will never eve chase a cat again as long as I live lol.

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