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I don't know. She doesn't seemed to be very concerned she's gonna miss the train.

A friend of mine who is a married woman just told me she doesn't want to be married to her H anymore but she would love to be friends with him. She is just not interested in him romantically.

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I don't know. She doesn't seemed to be very concerned she's gonna miss the train.

A friend of mine who is a married woman just told me she doesn't want to be married to her H anymore but she would love to be friends with him. She is just not interested in him romantically.


I think that's my ex exactly. She invites me to do stuff, asks me to come over and work on stuff, sends me a friendly text now and then, but I really think that's all she wants. And that's actually fine with me, I love to do stuff with my GF but it's also nice to fall back and have family time with my kids and ex now and then. Not that it happens a lot, with the girls grown and moved out we're only talking maybe half a dozen times a year.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57
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AS,

Sounds to me like you’re cake eating lol!

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Well sure I may be way off on what my gut is telling me...but it's just how I feel about it. I think at some point she's going to want to talk about R. But again, that's fine and dandy if she sees the light one day...but my job is only to drive the train here when it's time. I'm not at all concerned with who's filling the seats to maxium capacity.
If WAW misses the posh, luxurious, and first class train that is me...she can catch the next ordinary, commercial Amtrak.

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ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14
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Any updates IH







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ItHurts - I read through all 13 threads of your "My Tragic WAW Story" today. Fascinating. Unbelievable 4 year journey and almost R. It's been a year and a half since your last post now. I'd love to know where things stand in your life if you're out there.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21
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