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Dawn pats to Molly and hugs to Dawn.

At the moment I am deeply down, I am sure it's just the last phase of Kubler Ross.

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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


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Sending you positivity : )


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017
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Sending positive thoughts your way. I hope you feel better soon!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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Hang in there Vanilla..
One day at a time, one task at a time.
Prioritize..

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Hi Lady V

Just stopping by to say hello and checking in this space.

Lots of love

JellyB xxx

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I'm not sure how to get to know people irl. I would love to know you off of here, you seem like such a genuine person.
I know others do it... but I don't know how.

Given we are in different countries it's hard to see how one could take advantage of any one.... irl


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T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
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Ggrass,

We aren't allowed to share personal information here...but many connect on Facebook using their posting name here and putting DB behind their name.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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I was just thinking, hmmmmmm have not heard anything from Vanilla for a while. So then I looked it up and wow, it's been two entire months! I hope you are doing better but either way it would be great to hear from you V!


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Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06
4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
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Thought I would offer an update for my friends here who I don't meet offline (Yes GG there are lots of us roaming wild out there!). And some are lifelong friends. There is a sense in which we share our souls, thoughts, joys and fears. We share our internet friendships and the broken side of us, our dark nights of the soul, our burdens, we learn the wisdom of crowds.

I am so, so grateful for all of you who have helped carry my burden and let me share yours.

I had a flood at my house, broke my ankle, did some studying.

And healed. Really truly healed, back to the point where I date or not as I choose.

I have lost the last remaining weight to target (that's 85 lbs over 4 years) and I feel like me again. Plain Vanilla no more.

There is GAL, so much beautiful wonderful GAL, and men to kiss. Recommended GAL and kissing.

Yes, I am looking for a lover for the rest of my life. There are choices to make in loving ourselves first, we can be very very choosy in who we pick.

This board saved my life and sanity and released me from a very bad abusive marriage. For the lurking here, the raw truth in my posts reveals that my abusive M should not be saved but the target should.

I needed a break from the board to finalise my healing in my peace. There will be a return by Lady V, that is my internet promise to pay it forward. There are peeps in pain.

Thank you Focus, Job and Don for checking on me, and my lovely GG we will find a way to connect. Jellyb you lnow my love for you anyway, needs not be said. Exquisite we laugh together anyway, beautiful lady.

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D@mn edit button still doesn't work.

Mumble

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V 64, WAW


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