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Re: Fave Mantras [Re: kml] #2797306
06/22/18 02:44 AM
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Tia -
I don t have a mantra but do have some advice. You said you broke up with fiance because he was flaky and didn t keep his promises. Still, you didn t break up with him until Dr. Michael showed up.

Assuming your assessment of fiance is true and not just rewriting history in order to dump him WHY did you stay for 14 years with a guy who wasn't meeting your needs?

Seems to me you need to figure out what this was about before you can have a healthy relationship with Dr Michael (especially since there s a risk you might be his rebound?).


KML - restored


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Re: Fave Mantras [Re: Cadet] #2797308
06/22/18 02:47 AM
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So for KML and Tia

The main culprit for you disappearing posts are

Contractions, quote marks and the word fiance with a special e at the end of it.

You are likely using a device that converts what you are writing to put in all this stuff and causes the posts to not appear.

The quick quote button show you the posts


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Re: Fave Mantras [Re: Cadet] #2797394
06/22/18 09:24 AM
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Thanks so much, Cadet!!!!!

Re: Fave Mantras [Re: Tia] #2797398
06/22/18 10:11 AM
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Tia,

Welcome back! It's been a long, long time and I remember you as a moderator and often wondered what happened to you.

Cadet,

Thank you for restoring postings on Tia's thread.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Re: Fave Mantras [Re: job] #2797410
06/22/18 02:47 PM
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Cadet, I stayed with him for 14 years since I loved him. No one is perfect, and I am very loyal. He changed a lot for me; however, he doesn't keep his word. I cannot live like that. But we remain friends. I even bought him lunch yesterday.

Hi job! Nice to be recognized! I hope you're having a grrreat weekend!

To be continued...
/Tia

Re: Fave Mantras [Re: Tia] #2797411
06/22/18 02:50 PM
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Cadet, you are on target. I don't like being alone. That's key. But the doc is in California.

Re: Fave Mantras [Re: Tia] #2797412
06/22/18 03:07 PM
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Right now I'm doing things independently. I am focusing on my health. I recently fractured my lower back and see an Acupuncturist, Physiatrist (joint/muscles), Physical Therapist. So I do daily exercises. I spend time with my parents, and I'm going back to school. I should also develop my faith, and memorize scriptures. My focus is my health, family and career. But God should be Number One. The men can chase after me...ha ha:):)


Aloha,

/Tia

Re: Fave Mantras [Re: Tia] #2797418
06/22/18 08:52 PM
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Originally Posted By: Tia
Cadet, you are on target. I dont like being alone. Thats key. But the doc is in California.

I think that the credit should go to KML, I just restored her post.


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Re: Fave Mantras [Re: Cadet] #2797425
06/23/18 01:09 AM
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Re: Fave Mantras [Re: Tia] #2797426
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Thanks to the moderators for restoring our posts. (Eye roll)

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