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Re: Online Affair [Re: Vanilla] #2785772
04/18/18 02:27 AM
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What about a post-nup for a wife? Says if she strays she gets nothing?


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Re: Online Affair [Re: Steve85] #2785844
04/18/18 08:58 AM
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Originally Posted By: Steve85
What about a post-nup for a wife? Says if she strays she gets nothing?


You probably won't get away with nil. But you can limit it.

And children support stays out.

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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


Re: Online Affair [Re: Steve85] #2785888
04/18/18 05:49 PM
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L says post nup gets too much interrogation in court. Judges thinks they were done under coercion.
Agreement would do and might hold up in court. Don't waste time on post nup, expense is almost the same with D.
Ever wonder why I keep civil with my H?
Since I am the party that has the most to loose financially, I have to make sure that I am diplomatic and that we are at peace, otherwise bickering would only result in L's getting paid too much.
Make D simple, agree on terms first before filing.
You will save a lot of $, time and headaches.

If ever you get married again, then you can do the pre-nup, stating the financial penalty if one party have any form of infidelity.

Re: Online Affair [Re: Amazona] #2785889
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It depends on your jurisdiction. And a post nup isn't expensive.

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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


Re: Online Affair [Re: Vanilla] #2787608
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Last Saturday was a surprise, the other woman's Facebook account is gone. Not sure if she deactivated it or she just made it private.
Not a total victory, but for now, at least she is not making her and my husbands picture together so public.
Still no word from my husband of what happened to the FB account. It does not matter to me.
Not unless my husband tells me that their relationship is over and that he ceased communicating with her, this journey continues and I will always be vigilant.

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Just read your stitch and it reminds me of my best friend. His wife left him after her first love reached out to him on FB and she had tried to keep it a secret until he found out. He thought till death do us part she choose differently.

Good Luck with your situation.


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T-20Yrs M-16Yrs
S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up
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BD 10/31/17
separate rooms 02/08/18
wife moved out 05/17/18

Re: Online Affair [Re: Amazona] #2787683
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Originally Posted By: Amazona
Last Saturday was a surprise, the other woman's Facebook account is gone. Not sure if she deactivated it or she just made it private.
Not a total victory, but for now, at least she is not making her and my husbands picture together so public.
Still no word from my husband of what happened to the FB account. It does not matter to me.
Not unless my husband tells me that their relationship is over and that he ceased communicating with her, this journey continues and I will always be vigilant.


Could be removed, could be covert, she might have changed her name.

Likely (as with the BIT and the G it's to cover it up.

Be aware that they can tell if you are exploring the pages. The BIT and her D haunt my pages when the G is in the UK. Plus if anything is going on. I haven't blocked or unfriended.

I have reached the state of Meh and Neh. It's a great place of WTFOREVER. Recommended.

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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


Re: Online Affair [Re: Vanilla] #2788699
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Here is a link to Andrew G. Marshall. Post in his community really helped me a lot and made me feel that I am not alone.

http://andrewgmarshall.com/help-advice/

I am hoping that it would help this community too.

Re: Online Affair [Re: Amazona] #2789395
05/10/18 07:28 PM
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I spoke to my mother yesterday.
She told me about a politician who was killed.
The story is, he was killed because of a woman.
He was a married man, he has an affair with another woman OW#2.
But then he impregnated his secretary OW#3.

At first, I was thinking, maybe it was the wife or the secretary that killed him.

Guess what?
The brother of OW #2 visited this politician, went behind him and shoot him on the head. Brain splattered on the table.
I told my Mom, "Oh, then it was the #2 who is gutsy"

It dawn on me that when you are the real husband or wife, you can always tell yourself that you hold the family name, properties and whatever privileges there is.
As the other woman/man, you always hide, nothing to show for it, everything is done in the dark.
Perhaps, OW#2 is so distraught on learning that OW#3 is pregnant and that the brother took it in his hands to deal with this womanizing "brother-in-law"

My sister-in-law told me that if you search in youtube, you will see a lot of wives shaming other woman in public like undressing OW in malls.
Karma...

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