Wise words, and you are probably right that more M could be reconciled with a lot of patience and DBing. Out of curiosity, it took your XW appx 4 years from BD to show some sort of regret?
My XW and OM are done. This summer. After the 2 odd years you also mentioned (2,5 appx). So I'm a bit curious. Just a little bit ;-)
M:46 WXW:40 T:20 M:13 D3,D8,D10 BD:11/12/16 D:12/14/16 OM confirmed 01/20/17
Hi Btrow, it was was about 19 months before she really expressed real regret as to how she acted and maybe another 12 months before she was done with om. Sadly for her it ended with her having to get a restraining order for domestic violence. She has apologised time and time again and expressed her wishes to work on the M but as this site says ,sometimes we grieve and we move forward and on.
