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NG's BIL is a very, very famous musician


Does he live in the same said town that has spawned many, many musicians?


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Hi Jeep,

The BIL doesn't. He is much older than NG and was in a very very popular of the 80s and 90s. Howevs, I used to wait on LOTS of musicians back in the day in said town. Lots:)



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That's one thing that I miss was the music scene. Been to the GA theater more time than I can remember. I think I saw Widespread Panic 6 times there.


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Ah yes. I saw so many bands there. Widespread Panic. Saw Hootie and the Blowfish so many times. Who knew Darius Rucker would become a country sensation? Do you remember Follow for Now? Loved them. I saw Pearl Jam at Legion. My NG has photographed some of the up and coming musicians there which is kind of cool.



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Hi DB peeps,

The kids were with my brother and their grandparents for break and came back strep and a stomach virus. Argh. I hope everyone is on the mend. D12 is 2 inches taller than me now. Sigh. I'm still taller than the boys.


You know I relish the unconventional. I think it's a subconscious thing but it's become my norm. As I met x Mr.GB's to get S7 (the mere sight of him turns me to putty), NG was with me. X-ILs love NG and have invited him to visit. He visited them when they stayed at my house when I was out of town. We discovered that my XMIL went to high school with NG's XFIL. It IS the south. I kid. :-) Funny to behaving lunch with your guy and ex ILs.

NG and I had a great week but hit a bit of an issue Saturday night. He made s7 and i a delicious dinner of asparagus shrimp risotto. S7 was watching a movie and NG said he didn't feel I was open to people about our R. He's right. I don't post pics but the people important to me know of him and that's what counts. This conversation turned sideways about marriage and living together and I got a bit snippy. I apologized and asked to refrain from chatting about that topic too much right now.

I need a new career and can't seem to get motivated. It's time. Here's to hoping the Ebola virus/ tuberculosis level 3 leaves our house for good.

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GB,

You are way ahead of me. You are doing awesome!


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You know I relish the unconventional. I think it's a subconscious thing but
NG and I had a great week but hit a bit of an issue Saturday night. He made s7 and i a delicious dinner of asparagus shrimp risotto.


Hold On GB,

Sorry, I know there's more going on here but I can't get past this statement. Seriously? Your seven-year-old will eat shrimp and asparagus risotto? I have dinner envy.

I'm sorry your relationship with NG seems to be causing you angst. I would say just enjoy it for what it is and stop pressuring yourself - but it sounds like he wants more than that right now. FWIW, major kudos to you for getting this far- I am still deeply ambivalent about the thought of dating.

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Raliced,

Yes!!! It's awesome to hear from you. I have super ambitious eaters. S7 loves sushi as well :-) I can't think of anything he doesn't like? The other week he tried vegemite.

I understand the ambivalence. I do. I wasn't looking-NG is fantastic, however I wasn't expecting this. Still trying to go at a pace I can handle.



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GB,

My S9 would have LOVED the shrimp & asparagus risotto. Especially if he could have picked out the asparagus. smile

My Guy had the good sense to refrain from being too open about his long-term ambitions at the beginning, but they're becoming a lot more clear now that we've been together just over a year. I have been anxious and ambivalent in a lot of ways about the relationship for a big chunk of it. I don't know if this is part of your anxiety, but for me I've had a hard time believing he wasn't going to crush my heart like Mr. Fantastic did, or that he didn't have an ulterior motive in some way. It's take a long time to figure things out for me.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, it's reasonable that you would have anxiety in a new relationship after everything. I hope you find your footing soon and try to enjoy the ride along the way. And I hope your new guy is patient and supportive while you find it.

Hugs!!!


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