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Welcome juju. We should have a ceremony for moving to Surviving. But it would be hard to find a better gift than having that crap behind us! smile


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Originally Posted By: Zues126
We should have a ceremony for moving to Surviving. But it would be hard to find a better gift than having that crap behind us! smile


Zues126,

I can think of a better gift. I mean, it's been a really long time.

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I didn't react when he put his hand on the small of my back.

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Wasn't there also someone whose former spouse complained they bought the wrong flavour crisps?


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Originally Posted By: Zues
Welcome juju. We should have a ceremony for moving to Surviving. But it would be hard to find a better gift than having that crap behind us

Hi JuJu! So sorry you ended up here instead of piecing, but I know that you are going to survive and thrive and live a wonderful happy fulfilled life. And you know what, I am truly grateful that my ex "rejected" me. I had no idea what it is like to be with someone who is kind, loving, who actually likes me and is interested in what I have to say. Took some getting used to! You'll be fine! We'll all be fine!


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