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Re: MLC ExWife, she's already married again [Re: Wet] #2710272
10/15/16 11:30 AM
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Baby steps! All positive steps in your posting. Let's hope he can meet new friends and enjoy the school year.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Re: MLC ExWife, she's already married again [Re: job] #2710302
10/15/16 02:33 PM
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Wet,

Seen your comments about s15. Do you think he just wants your time? Could you go on a boys fishing weekend? Or something he would like. Somewhere he can talk. Or is there something the likes that you could take him to? What's he into?

Surfer.


M46/W40/D8/S6/T20/M12/Separated 6/2016,W takes kids
Issues2009
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EA2013PAdeniedWleavesMBR
ImeetAP/EAhalts
VariousBDDates
MFCourse
WSpew
EAresumes I halt
Wrages
DBIng4/2016




Re: MLC ExWife, she's already married again [Re: Surfer] #2710395
10/16/16 07:42 AM
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Yes, you have a good suggestion Surfer. Both my sister and brother have cabins on a lake up north. I might see if I can invite ourselves to spend time this week with them.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace
Re: MLC ExWife, she's already married again [Re: Wet] #2710514
10/17/16 12:22 AM
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Sometimes when we want attention we don't always recognise that. We feel insecure, not connected or in not control, perhaps without reAssurance we feel we need etc. At age 18 or so this can still be confusing particularly for an adolescent/teenage boy trying to be an adult. As they are often less emotionally mature than girls of the same age. He may not recognise his need to talk. Just company with you with a lot of silence and validation when he talks will do wonders. Her may spew but just do what you did with your W and listen and validate is my suggestion. Before you know it I trust he will open up a little. You can then respond and help like only Dads can at times. Good luck.

Surfer.


M46/W40/D8/S6/T20/M12/Separated 6/2016,W takes kids
Issues2009
Wpartying w/g.f's2013on
EA2013PAdeniedWleavesMBR
ImeetAP/EAhalts
VariousBDDates
MFCourse
WSpew
EAresumes I halt
Wrages
DBIng4/2016




Re: MLC ExWife, she's already married again [Re: Surfer] #2710515
10/17/16 12:29 AM
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good news about s wet. my boy is just a bit older - he'll be 17 next month (how did that happen?)... we forget how fragile they still are. they have one foot inching towards adulthood while the other is in childhood. that lives them square in the middle between the two. and kids can be really cruel sometimes. He's just had his world upended and a new step parent thrown into the mix. you are doing all you can by being there, supportive and loving. I think some guy time away is a good plan.

continued prayers coming your way.

xoxoxo


M 20+ T25+
S 15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
H moved out 4/24/15
D Final 12/23/16

One, Two, Three, Give it to God
Re: MLC ExWife, she's already married again [Re: bttrfly] #2710552
10/17/16 05:43 AM
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Sorry 15 not 18! Duh!


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Issues2009
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EA2013PAdeniedWleavesMBR
ImeetAP/EAhalts
VariousBDDates
MFCourse
WSpew
EAresumes I halt
Wrages
DBIng4/2016




Re: MLC ExWife, she's already married again [Re: Surfer] #2710555
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Just looked and the lakes near you must be amazing for fishing. Could even have a cook up over a camp fire and if not, take a cool box with "a pre-caught" fish and surprise him!!!

Could even have a couple of beers round the camp fire - at that age I am sure he could have a shandy too!!

Get it booked!!

Surfer.


M46/W40/D8/S6/T20/M12/Separated 6/2016,W takes kids
Issues2009
Wpartying w/g.f's2013on
EA2013PAdeniedWleavesMBR
ImeetAP/EAhalts
VariousBDDates
MFCourse
WSpew
EAresumes I halt
Wrages
DBIng4/2016




Re: MLC ExWife, she's already married again [Re: Surfer] #2711597
10/21/16 04:31 PM
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Friday Lawyer Joke:

The person who assists a criminal in breaking the law before the criminal gets arrested, is called an accomplice.

The person who assists a criminal in breaking the law after the criminal gets arrested, is his lawyer. grin


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace
Re: MLC ExWife, she's already married again [Re: Wet] #2714213
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A Friday Lawyer Joke, I hope it makes you smile:

A man who was having heart trouble went to the doctor to see what his options were.

Naturally, the doctor recommended a heart transplant.
The man reluctantly agreed, and asked if there were any hearts immediately available,considering that money was no object.
"I do have three hearts," said the doctor. "The first is from an 18-year old  kid, nonsmoker, athletic, swimmer, with a great diet.

He hit his head on the swimming pool and died. It's $100,000.

The second is from a marathon runner,  24 years old, great condition, very strong. He got hit by a bus. It's $150,000.

The third is from a heavy drinker, cigar smoker, and a steak lover. It's $500,000."

"Hey, why is that heart so expensive? He lived a terrible life!"
"Yeah, but it's from a lawyer and never been used."


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace
Re: MLC ExWife, she's already married again [Re: Wet] #2715096
11/09/16 10:45 AM
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Great jokes, how about an update my friend.....







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