A good friend of mine is encouraging me to approach W about an upcoming Retrouvaille weekend in our area. I've been wanting to see if my W would be open to this but fear she'd push it off.
Thoughts on asking her? Would this be seen as desperate from a DB perspective?
My thoughts were to just let her know it's in August and see if she would be open to attending to see if our M is salvageable. I wouldn't pressure her, would leave it up to her to decide.
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17
It's starting to sync in now with D that the separation may not be so "temporary" as W has been telling her. She hasn't been sleeping well and Sunday night got emotional with me.
Last night as we were heading out we were talking about her upcoming birthday in the summer and she said that all she wants for her birthday is for M & D to get back together... breaks my heart, I hope she shares this with W too...
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17
I've never even seen that video series before... Considering I just received my D papers yesterday... This would be helpful, but something has me a little skeptical of the link. Are these really MWD Training Vids or some kind of rebranding from someone else? what's mykajabi<dot>com?
It seems to be legit as there is also a recent post from the DB Facebook page with a 50% coupon for the videos.
Me, WW - Upper 30s BD - Apr 1 2016 EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away) Confronted wife about EA - May 17 Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11
Well, I have one phone counseling session left, and she said we'd be going over the LRT in detail during our next session (Monday or Tuesday). I'll probably wait until after that session to see if I think I need more info. Have you purchased any of the phone coaching? I would assume the cover these items in detail for your last hour.
Not sure if this is a violation of TOS, but can someone link me the facebook landing page for that 50% off coupon? I'm one of those weirdo people who refuses to join facebook.
I did 3 sessions of Phone Coaching - spent some time working on goals and looking introspectively at where I can improve. I think it'd be different then the video series... Was hoping maybe someone on here purchased it and could highlight it.
On another topic - anyone got any good responses to the question "Where's W" when out at social events etc? Close friends I've been letting on that we are separated, but I'm talking about the neighbors, school parents etc... got a couple events coming up this weekend (end of year pool party and the school festival) and I don't really want to be telling the whole world we aren't together.
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17
I've never even seen that video series before... Considering I just received my D papers yesterday... This would be helpful, but something has me a little skeptical of the link. Are these really MWD Training Vids or some kind of rebranding from someone else? what's mykajabi<dot>com?
You just made me spit out my coffee, thanks. LOL
Me-LBH, 44 Spouse-WAW, 41 Married for 9 years S, 7 S, 5 BD - November 20th 2015
