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You are asking your H to make changes as you would like them.

He will do that which he wants to do for him or not.

Detaching means accepting that H will change in his way, fine if he does and ok if he doesn't.

It is knowing get he is as he is and it's his choice.

Detaching means you can stand without H changing if you want.

Detaching means letting go of this outcome and letting it unfold as it will.

There is peace in this.

Great peace.

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Please start a new thread.


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The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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Your boys are playing sport, thats a great thing, not only for them but for you too, it gives you an opportunity to become involved too. This leads to social connections as well.
Become a time keeper or scorer, or some other helper!


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PA not sure.
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Good deal Broke. You are doing great. Sounds like your roller coaster ride is flattening a bit. Awesome. We all deserve better treatment.

Hoops heaven right now Broke. Yay!



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Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.

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Bomb 1-Jan.2008
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She came back for 8 years
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Separation 3-12-2016
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