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Re: V is for Vanilla 23 [Re: gonegrl] #2615402
10/13/15 09:49 PM
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Happy New Year to you, as well! I'm sending wishes for great things for you this year.


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti
Re: V is for Vanilla 23 [Re: Ancaire] #2615537
10/14/15 08:28 AM
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Cheers
Anc, Photo, RD, Msd, Z, Avanti, Dawn for all your wonderful support.

Today my meeting was cancelled so I have gained a day toout accounts.

I am making today a duvet day with the TV and paperwork.

Let's see how much I can get done. An extra day towards my goal is really good.

Breathe V, breathe.

Go for it girl, get going.

My new power words are go girl, ras song by pitbull. I use this as my ringtone.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 10/14/15 08:28 AM.

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


Re: V is for Vanilla 23 [Re: Vanilla] #2615589
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Hi Vanillia. Pitbull as your ring tone !!! You Da Bomb Diggerty !!!!


Take care. Rd. xx

Re: V is for Vanilla 23 [Re: rd500] #2615811
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Hi V

Thanks for thinking of me (amongst many others) the other day on your momentous anniversary.

I haven't been around for a while. Trying to get on, and not doing too badly.

Planning on going to Ceroc at Camber shortly. Are you?

Much love
OD xx


M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
Re: V is for Vanilla 23 [Re: Old Dog] #2615846
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Yes, I am planning Camber....

V


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


Re: V is for Vanilla 23 [Re: Vanilla] #2615974
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I am struggling again.

My body is fighting me, it is headache, purging and I am very achy. I am physically afraid and exhausted as a result of the issues I have found, some very damaging indeed. I am very anxious and stressed the last two days. Perhaps the resistance is because I would rather not do this, I would rather it went away altogether. I am going to keep on until this is done.

I think my blood sugar is out of order, there is fog, horrors and nasal issues. Not good. Resistance, perhaps if I resolve this I can move on. What will I find at the end of this? Is my business viable? Have I allowed issues with WH to disguise an unpleasant truth?

Yes, I am afraid and that is causing me stress. Whatever. The past has to be resolved no matter, clients invoiced for past work. Then we will see.

Yesterday I achieved only a small amount of work. I tackled some of the worst reconciliation issues in the sole trade and some transactions took a very long time.

Today I reached May 2015 WH left 2 May 2015 and I started managing the transactions and it's much easier the transactions are cleaner and there are fewer problems.

So today I am pushing on with it, I have decided this week until Sunday then I have to go back to normal:

I will with energy concentration and joy:

1. Finish posting the sole trade
2. Reconcile the sole trade debtors ledgers
3. Raise standing order invoices
4. Post cash transactions
5. New bank statements that have come in this month to post
6. Start the current VAT return
7. Reconcile and agree the VAT ledgers in the VAT reg company

All of that today.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 10/15/15 10:36 AM.

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


Re: V is for Vanilla 23 [Re: Vanilla] #2615980
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You forgot point 8. Take regular breaks to have some fun and nourish myself.


- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow
- Consult your plan, not your feelings
- If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
Re: V is for Vanilla 23 [Re: Avanti] #2615985
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Reconciliation - The nightmare of all bookkeepers and accountants that procrastinate or do shoddy work. It is much easier to fix when you are the one who messed up. At least you would have a better idea of what you did.

I feel for you V. Glad you were able to take care of some of the difficult ones. I always save those for last when I try and reconcile.

Regarding blood sugar--do you have a monitor that you are using? You said "I think my blood sugar is out of order." You should know for sure if you are having blood sugar problems.

Last edited by WhyUs; 10/15/15 11:23 AM.

Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs
EA: Started 3/2015
MC Started: 4/2015
She moved out and served 6/2015
PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015
2 young kids

"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."
Re: V is for Vanilla 23 [Re: WhyUs] #2616305
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V hope you get feeling better. Have been thinking about you lately! Small steps! That is what you always tell me! Have a great weekend!


M:34
D:12

Re: V is for Vanilla 23 [Re: rdy2chg] #2616310
10/16/15 02:57 AM
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V I hope you are feeling better too. Tomorrow is Friday! Get some rest


Me:33 H:36
T:13 years
M:10 years
S4
Separated 05/15
H Filed 06/15
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