yeah - i'm great - lurk now and then. have had the girls most of this fortnight as Mum's away on business. Feels like a real family, minus the uncommitted. I think every day about our discussion and it really has changed my life. My view of the M, everything.
WRT the M, my biggest mistake was allowing it to happen. I put up with being a noted 2nd class citizen for a long time. I think the lifestyle suited my W, and this was her motivation. But we got a point where I started to detach from the unrequited love R we had set up. She lost her power over me, and also her draw. This just escalated the R dynamic that we had fallen into.
Otherwise, 6 more days until I file for consent order to be made by court re:custody. W has danced around, made empty threats for long enough. It will be a while before even an interim order is made, at least 3 months, until then - status quo. And then, whatever the order is - things are always changing huh.
I hope all is well for you. I really have to get some work done now.
-Py
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
nice to see you too. I'll have to stop by and see what has changed in your neck of the woods. this should all be over mid-Jan and wife told to step off (by the Judge).
Otherwise - great
Ls - consistently making money out of this - and milking it!
-Py
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015
Just wanted to thank you for all of your help when I first signed on. You really helped me get through those early and very brutal months. I am eternally grateful.
Sorry you are going through such an expensive court battle. I hope things work out as much in your favor as possible.
Julie
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
sorry - geek-bot over here