has anyone read "the solo partner" input/discussio

[twinmom]

I sure as he!! don't want my next relationship to end like my marriage so I am trying to make myself REALLY awesome, lol. Re-reading this book and trying to take new ideas from it.

Can anyone help me understand the anger chapter better. And moving past all the anger and lowering expectations?

Please, anyone who has read this book please comment on any part and how it has helped you, what you took away from it.

[Cadet]

Yes I have read it and have had some real discussions with Phil Delucca about pursuit and distance.

It has been about 4 years and tbh I don't remember the anger chapter, or at least I don't remember it being anything unusual.

Yes you need to release your anger and lower your expectations.

The thing I took away from this book was to STOP all pursuit.