RPP: Best Year Ever (18)

[SunnyB]

Last thread locked, here's the link:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2540321&page=1

[SunnyB]

Good morning, all! Last night D12 had a basketball game, and H and I went to get a drink after. We had nice conversation, and then I dropped him back at his place. He kissed me when he got out of the car. Happy Anniversary to me.

Regular non-25th-anniversary days will now resume.

[bdub]

So much for "nothing at all physically to back up the booty texts"........

Now I am going to pry. Was the kiss confusing? Exciting? Arousing?
I ask that because I am curious how it has effected you.

[SunnyB]

So much for "nothing at all physically to back up the booty texts"........

Now I am going to pry. Was the kiss confusing? Exciting? Arousing?
I ask that because I am curious how it has effected you.

Hi bdub!

The kiss was easy. He's the only guy I've been with for 27 years, it's all I know.

It was flattering. A sexy guy wanted to kiss me.

There was a slight bit of a power rush, I could have allowed the kiss or denied it, my choice. I could have had more, I turned it down.

I did not feel any hope or expectation, it doesn't change anything. After all, we slept together for 7 months between BD and S -- he moved anyway.

I think that covers it.

[Vanilla]

It is in his kiss as they say, and in yours not so much.

Good for you, now he is plan c!

V

[SunnyB]

Hey V!

We went from kissing on Tuesday, to NC on Wednesday, to almost-NC today except for one exchange of kid-schedule emails. And I'm fine with all of that.

[Vanilla]

Well flirty stuff!

Wholeheartly approve of ego boosting flirting as I know you have no expectations and this is no game.

In fact the take it or leave it, no rather not thank you, means RPP is detatching

V

[SunnyB]

Good morning, all! I have nearly zero to say about my sich, but just wanted to check in anyway. The last two days with H have been either NC or almost NC.

I have a busy weekend planned, almost all of it with D12. We have a cooking class tomorrow morning, and a school carnival on Sunday afternoon. S19 is still home so I'll try to spend time with him, too. Today I'm going to lunch with the girls from the church office.

Wishing everyone a good day!

[bdub]

I'm with V, I see a lot more detachment recently.
That is a good thing for you and for your M.

[SunnyB]

I'm with V, I see a lot more detachment recently.
That is a good thing for you and for your M.

I agree on perhaps I'm more detached. And maybe that's a good thing for me. But it seems to be the kiss of death for the M. He doesn't want it, I want it less and less every day. Who is left fighting for us? No one.