Just a quick update to all of you still in the thick of things. It can be so much better, and will be, in time. For me, no amount of dbing made a difference. I divorced, sold my house, moved back to my home state. The very day my divorce was final, I found out I got my old job back. Two weeks later I reconnected with a guy I had known for 10 years, and we have been seeing each other ever since. He is everything I need: honest, loyal, trustworthy, kind. Even so, going through this process has taught me to retain my sense of self in a relationship. I've gained the tools to have a healthier, more balanced relationship with someone who is worthy of the effort. I wish the same for you all. There's something to be learned no matter what the outcome with your spouse. For me, having moved on, I can see that the path I have taken has led to growth and a better life. Good luck to you all, and thanks to those of you who saw me through those dark, early days!
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!
Ahoy, nice to hear your happy update! I'm really glad things are working out for you. None of us wanted to be here but you are proof that not only does life go on, it can be good. I'm right behind you.