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SunnyB #2606716 09/14/15 11:08 AM
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Just a quick update to all of you still in the thick of things. It can be so much better, and will be, in time. For me, no amount of dbing made a difference. I divorced, sold my house, moved back to my home state. The very day my divorce was final, I found out I got my old job back. Two weeks later I reconnected with a guy I had known for 10 years, and we have been seeing each other ever since. He is everything I need: honest, loyal, trustworthy, kind. Even so, going through this process has taught me to retain my sense of self in a relationship. I've gained the tools to have a healthier, more balanced relationship with someone who is worthy of the effort. I wish the same for you all. There's something to be learned no matter what the outcome with your spouse. For me, having moved on, I can see that the path I have taken has led to growth and a better life. Good luck to you all, and thanks to those of you who saw me through those dark, early days!


M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!
Ahoy #2606773 09/14/15 02:47 PM
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Ahoy, nice to hear your happy update! I'm really glad things are working out for you. None of us wanted to be here but you are proof that not only does life go on, it can be good. I'm right behind you.



"Don't look back, you aren't going that way"
SunnyB #2606843 09/14/15 06:03 PM
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Great update, Ahoy! Glad to hear things are going well for you.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014
gan #2606861 09/14/15 06:34 PM
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Fantastic update Ahoy. I.m really pleased for you. Thank you for posting


Take care. Rd

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