Haunted, Not at first, but the more I was around him, the more I could see the signs of depression. Eventually he lost weight, lost interest in things, he looked sad, his eyes were "dead looking", he couldn't sleep at night, talked of death (even showed me the tree limb that he was planning to hang himself from), etc.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Babe, Where do you want them linked? If you are looking for their threads, go to the top of the screen and hit the Search button and type in LoisB or Gwen's name and you can search then read and print them out.
I'm not planning to link them to this thread.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I would suggest that if you are interested in reading Heather and Gwen's threads, that you go to the bottom of the screen (left hand side) and locate the "Display options" feature. Click on "show topics" and change the setting to "from all dates" and then hit the "change" button. Once that is done, go to the top of the screen and click on the "search" button and type in the name of the poster you are looking for.
Generally some posters will list at the top of their thread the links to their respective threads. Some don't.
Good luck!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I'm 18 months post bombed; husband moved out of our apartment 8 months ago. He had multiple affair with young girls. It's so difficult and I'm standing. he would call and yell and said all the mean things to me...
The only good thing to know from the posts and from Job, Heartsblessing - "we did not break him, we cannot fix them" Keep the love and compassion and rely on God, we will make it to the other side !!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
