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Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #6) [Re: Vanilla] #2539144
02/17/15 02:38 AM
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Was just told a story by a mutual friend, about how she witnessed BF and his sister in an exchange on Facebook. She says he was teasing his sister about being mushy in a Valentine's Day post regarding her boyfriend, and his sister retorted that he was the same, all his talk about how OW is "the one".

Barf. Cried on the way home, but I have PMS and it doesn't really mean anything.


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #6) [Re: Little] #2539150
02/17/15 03:02 AM
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Not kind of your friend to tell you that story. I'm sorry.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #6) [Re: Maybell] #2539361
02/17/15 08:12 PM
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Awwww Little.

Just think of her as "the one" who puts up with his lies, cheating and bullsh!t! Have fun OW, have fun!

Hugs!

Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #6) [Re: LisaB] #2540896
02/21/15 02:38 PM
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I'm adopting another kitty so that my little one can have someone to play and rough house with. Hoping this will keep him exercised and happy and give the elder kitty some relief.

We're going to see him today, trying to think of good names for him!

Also going to breakfast and a home show with a friend.

Still one foot in front of the other.


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #6) [Re: Little] #2540901
02/21/15 02:45 PM
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I second Lisa's opinion! OW is not winning a prize -- she is willingly investing in a known cheater who lies. Would you want to be with a person like that? Is that acceptable, or desirable, to you? Good riddance! Have fun with the new kitty. Stay strong -- you are worth so much more!


M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #6) [Re: Ahoy] #2541044
02/22/15 12:57 AM
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Yeah little, it's no prize she has won.

She's not aware she has the rough end of the pineapple, later she will wake up and see it's not even a pineapple. wink grin

I know, It stings to a degree. Go out and have coffe or do something for you.

You need to read edzs and jim, vanilla and my thread. Seem we all had silly pils and billy Connely eat your heart out. You sound like you need a smile sweet pea.

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M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #6) [Re: Ggrass] #2541059
02/22/15 03:27 AM
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Still difficult, eh? Tell us: anything got easier in the last month or two?

I'm so glad I never hear anything about the romance between WAW and OM. Sorry you had to hear this Facebook exchange. If what you've reported on him is accurate, it won't last and your XBF is set up for failure. I'm not sure it's any comfort because the real question is: would he be a good partner for you in the long run, after what he's just done?


M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #6) [Re: Mozza] #2541656
02/24/15 02:37 AM
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Barf.

Still on the "this is a thing that actually happens to people?!" train.

BAAAAARRRRFFFF.


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #6) [Re: Little] #2541909
02/24/15 08:44 PM
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Hi Little.

you bought a smile to my face. I hope you are doing ok


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #6) [Re: jim0987] #2542019
02/25/15 03:39 AM
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I'm afraid I'm always going to be so god damned Piscean that, despite knowing my love is wasted on someone that never compromised with me and ultimately completely disrespected and abandoned me in the end, I'm always going to subconsciously feel that I'd rather be alone without the other half of me than be with anyone else. He fills the void and everyone else emphasizes the gap.

Right now it's a "life is unfair, but it is what it is" feeling. I know I deserve better, however I can see this feeling lasting - because I'm melodramatic and prone to feeling everything to the very depths of my soul.

Deeper, when it's love, which I believe is unconditional.

Le sigh. I know the path through this is a marathon and not a sprint, but....


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
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