Im going to share something. I left my 1st w for my ex. I was 22 years old. Left her with 2 young sons. My entire pay went to her until 2009. I lived in shame all this time. My sons now 29 & 27 dont want anything to do with me.... I dont blame them...you will wake up many days wondering how the kids are, what they look like, who they look like, how are they doing in school, who they hang with....You wont matter to them... when you get to my age it will matter very much to you... I too wanted greener pastures..somehow they all dried up after awhile....
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Rick. We've been seperated for two years. I'm not cheating. She's gone on many dates and I have a gf. We did work on the marriage. We did spend time focusing on us. But it wasn't going to happen. But I never cheated. Please be careful with your words
No cadet no lies. I think you have posted on her threads many times. She values your input. But yes I'm positive she is in an EA. And has been for quite some time. You don't text someone daily, speak with them into the night and ask them to visit if there is nothing there. I am good with this. I encouraged her to date during our separation and it was genuine. I encourage her still. But the whole time we spent working on us she was in a EA with a member of this forum. It was hard to repair an M when the other has moved on.