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Well it is with some sadness that I post that her journey has come to and end.

Hearts Blessing passed on Sunday.

This is really all the information that I have that I can post.

Other than she was still very young at 54 years old.

I did meet her once a long time ago, she was a truck driver and she was passing near by to me.

I took her out to dinner and she prayed for me.

I do remember that she smoked like crazy.

Anyways if anyone else remembers her - please feel free to post your thoughts.


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I am very sorry to read about her passing. She was very young. May she rest in peace.


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very sad. she helped a lot of people.


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Sad news. I read everything I could find here and “elsewhere”. She had quite a bit of wisdom she freely shared.


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This is such a devastating loss. Her words provided much comfort to me and so many others. I hope she went peacefully.

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Very sad to read this. Through her I got my first aquintance with the term MLC, shortly after BD and through her posts I slowly but surely learned to understand what this was all about. She had an incredible talent for describing the crisis and how to handle things.
May she rest in peace.


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Is this the same Heart's Blessing that has the MLC website by the same name? Either way I am sad to see that she has passed. 54 is too young. That website was the first place I turned to after the initial BD. Then I found my way here.

May she rest in peace, and bless her for all the help she gave everyone with her words.


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So sad to hear this. I read a lot of her stuff online. 54 is so young. I guess you just never know… frown

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This is so sad. How unfortunate to have passed so young. I doubt she had any idea how helpful her words were to so many strangers. I personally read blog post after blog post on her site and it brought so much clarity during such a tough time. May she rest peacefully.


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Very sad to hear this. She helped so many. When I was early in my journey, I would search this site for anything that she had written. Her words were pure wisdom and got me through some very sad times. I hope she went peacefully.

R.I.P.

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Tad


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